Delayed Gratification Then and Now: Reflections on the Classic “Marshmallow Test”

Have you worried that kids are hooked on instant gratification because of all the time they spend using fast-paced technology? Many of us parents wonder about the impact of the ever-present devices that are such a big part of life in today’s world. Indeed, we should consider both the potential benefits and dangers of screen time. But, we also should be open to research that challenges some of our assumptions and expectations about kids today.   Stephanie Carlson, Distinguished McKnight Professor in the Institute of Child Development at the University of Minnesota, joins Mart & Erin this week. She talks about a fascinating study that challenges popular beliefs about children’s ability to delay gratification. And, she proposes ideas about what might account for her encouraging findings. Tune in to learn more about her findings on delayed gratification!   WERE YOU SURPRISED BY RESEARCH FINDINGS ON DELAYED GRATIFICATION? What was your reaction to Dr. Carlson’s findings (i.e. was this different than you would have expected?)? Stephanie said she thought increased public awareness about the importance of “executive function” might be having a positive effect on children’s development. What do you know about executive function and where did you learn it?   WANT TO LEARN MORE? ❉ SUPPORTING YOUR CHILD’S DEVELOPMENT OF “EXECUTIVE FUNCTION” OR SELF-CONTROL: A CONVERSATION WITH DR. STEPHANIE CARLSON. What researchers call “executive function” and most parents call “self-control” encompasses everything from paying attention in class to managing frustration with a difficult project. So how does executive function develop in children? And, what role do we play as parents in promoting good executive function? Tune in to this episode of Mom Enough to learn more about this important topic.  

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Dr. Marti Erickson, developmental psychologist and her daughter Dr. Erin Erickson, women’s health nurse practitioner and specialist in maternal-child health, are co-hosts of Mom Enough®. They explore the many facets of motherhood in today’s world – from confronting the daily joys and struggles of helping kids grow up well, to balancing work and family, to considering the big questions of how society views and values mothers and mothering. Marti & Erin use research-based information and a few personal confessions as they and their guests discuss what it means to be "mom enough." As moms, most of us worry at times about whether we're doing things right, second-guessing our parenting approach and blaming ourselves if our children stray or fall short. We worry that we might not be "mom enough". But what does it really mean to be "mom enough"? And is it possible to be "mom too much," to the extent that our kids might not have a chance to build their own skills to navigate life's ups and downs? A new, free audio show is posted every Monday with expert guests who address topics related to children’s heath, development and learning. Listen to Mom Enough at www.MomEnough.com. Informational sheets on parenting, health & wellness, child development and safety are available under Resources on our web site.