Redefining Parenting: Cooperation, Not Control with Hannah and Kelty of Upbringing

Resistance is just something that comes with parenting, be it telling our kids to turn off their phones or brush their teeth. But-- that doesn’t always have to be the case. We as parents can make the conscious choice to prioritise our personal relationships, using them to teach our kids what has to be done for themselves, effectively building up their own independence and self-control. In today's episode, I have Kelty and Hannah from Upbringing, here to discuss a new approach to connecting with our kids, so we can raise young adults that have a stronger sense of self and a more stable approach to life. They believe that by choosing to connect with our kids instead of controlling them, it can result in a relationship that positively reinforces self-discipline and accomplishing tasks for themselves-- instead of them simply following our words.   Episode Highlights: Who They Are The parenting dynamics of old Why the old dynamics need to change What you can do instead of power-parenting Focus on building relationships with your kids How to approach your kids to get a better response Kids and their safe spaces   About our Guests:   Hannah and Kelty currently run Upbringing-- an inclusive community that promotes the elevation of growth and connection. Through their beliefs in parenting, they work to redefine how we raise our kids while avoiding the conventional beliefs of old. Holding a Bachelor of Arts Degree from Stanford, the two have grown to become certified Parent Educators through the Positive Discipline Association, Family Life Coaches, and completed programs that focus on mindfulness-based stress reduction.   To take advantage of the Upbringing free Listening guide click here and enter code PEACE.   Connect with Hannah and Kelty from Upbringing: UPBRINGING | Podcast, Speaking, Coaching with Hannah + Kelty Upbringing ⋓ Hannah + Kelty (@upbringing.co) | Instagram Upbringing | YouTube Upbringing | Pinterest   Enjoy today’s episode? Please share this episode with a friend.   As a parent, how do you react when your patience has come to a breaking point? Yelling and threatening are common reflexive responses, but there is a way more effective path to dealing with your reactions. Healing Ourselves Through Journaling is not another handy parenting tool. It's a powerful in-depth experience. In 6 insightful steps, you'll find out how to take responsibility for your reactions and feel proud of yourself and your child. Click HERE to join our community and claim your free copy today. Take a look at my upcoming 3-Day Parenting Unplugged event. Get 15% OFF for a limited time. https://peaceandparentingla.com/parenting-unplugged Our Sponsors: * Check out Factor 75 and use my code PEACE50 for a great deal: https://www.factor75.com * Check out HomeThreads.com/PEACE to get a code for 15% off your first order! * Check out Masimo Stork: https://www.masimostork.com/en-us/ Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/peace-and-parenting/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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Find out how to come to parenting through the lens of connection as a way to navigate and unravel sticky parenting situations. Michelle is a mother of two girls, as well as a former teacher and counselor turned Certified Parenting Instructor. After years of consequences, bribes, and star charts, she finally reshaped the relationship she shares with her daughters and credits peaceful parenting for changing her life. Michelle considers herself a recovering yeller, perfectionist, and control freak who has found a more calm and connected way to parent.