Podcast 253 - Healing Childhood Wounds
This Subconscious Mind Mastery episode comes from a few recent conversations and observations I had where a common theme came up: Wounds from our childhood. It hurts growing up. And, in a sad way, we often very unintentionally hurt our kids as well. This subconscious cycle can be broken - that's the good news! But, because we're dealing with others (and their often unhealed wounds), the process can sometimes be arduous. Let's talk about it! Thomas Welcome to the subconscious mind mastery podcast. Thomas Miller. Thanks for joining us. Glad you're here. We got an interesting topic today that really I think has come from you and I'll tell you why. Because as you know, we have a Facebook page, subconscious mind mastery podcast listeners on Facebook. And if you ask to join the group, it's a private group. There are four questions that are right there at the beginning. And a lot of people don't, they don't answer the questions. Well, one of the reasons the questions are there is because I like to see why you want to be in our group. I've been noting, making a list of all of the answers of those over a period of time. And it's very clear that the number one issue is healing. Childhood wounds. Which really shouldn't be any surprise because that's how this whole podcast got started in the beginning over eight years ago, from my own journey of exploring how to heal my childhood wounds. So why would it not be the number one issue? And I mean, let's be Frank about it for many of us growing up hurt. And then in the cruel irony of earth, when we set out to be parents. The last thing we wanted to do was hurt our kids. And what do we do? We hurt our kids and we carry that guilt. So I've seen three reminders of this, this week. And they were conversations basically where I observed one way or another childhood wounds. And in each case, the people weren't even aware of it. And that's the big deal. So we, we know that we have these childhood wounds, right. We know that our upbringing left us scarred in some way or another, and we've done the best to either mask it, deal with it. We've carried it X far, but life is peeling an onion. So we're here with it until we exit. I mean, I, I would imagine you could make great strides. And I would imagine that it also is something that the onion would never stop peeling. Maybe if you hit enlightenment under a boat eye tree, you might get, if you do, my email isThomas@subconsciousmindmastery.com. Right? Email me I'd love to know. So here was one example where this showed up was having a conversation with a friend and. I was thinking about this before the window opened up to say this, but it just was so perfect. So the universe opened up the space and as it worked out, it was just the perfect timing. So I wasn't going to say anything about it. And then it was like, oh, it just opened up. And it was in the context of the conversation. So I mentioned that this friend in our phone conversations would often interrupt me. Like I wouldn't even get the sentence finish. He was on his way to the, to the next thing, just cut, you know, cut off. And I, you know, I'm real, I realized that this is typical and common today. Fred pointed this out to me about me several years ago and same thing cutting off, jumping on, stepping on no dead air. I mean, look, I was a disc jockey my sophomore year in college, right? I mean, no dead air is the radio monitor. I mean, if you put silence into spoken word, now that it was only five seconds, but how many of you started thumping on your phones? There's something wrong. We can't stand it. So in our conversations, we just jump on the other person, which to me is a, a form of disrespect. And I get that now I've really, introspected this of allowing somebody else, just th