How To Combat Loneliness As A Homeschool Mom
Do you wish you had more friends as a homeschool mom? Over my two decades of homeschooling, loneliness was a recurring problem. This is The Homeschool Sanity Show, the episode where I discuss how to combat loneliness as a homeschool mom. Hey, homeschoolers! I'm going to confess that I have sometimes envied moms who have dozens of homeschooling friends through their church, co-op, or activities. Although I had several close friends for the majority of my homeschooling, they graduated their students, moved, or quit homeschooling--leaving me lonely. I struggled more than once with loneliness in these latter years. But I have learned a lot that I want to share with you if you're in a similar situation. First, I want to say that if you're lonely it's not you. -work -co-ops, activities -smart phones -pandemic Second, be open to unexpected options. -retired homeschool moms -older women not homeschooling -friendships through activities Third, remember that it's not about you. -God wants to meet your needs -But your purpose is to be a friend to others -God may be using your loneliness to get you out of your comfort zone Action Steps to Combat Loneliness -Start a group or Bible study -Take a class -Ask people about themselves, even if they're staring at a phone -Ask someone to come over or to go out for coffee -Have a party -Meet up with an online friend -Read or listen to Find Your People by Jennie Allen (link on Homeschool Sanity) Conclusion My prayer is that you will overcome loneliness to find joy in relationships again. Have a happy homeschool week!