The Shocking Story Behind 'Sweet Bobby': My Catfishing Nightmare Explained with Kirat Assi

In this gripping episode of Millennial Mind, I sit down with Kirat Assi to delve into her harrowing experience of being catfished for almost nine years by her own cousin, as documented in the Netflix series 'Sweet Bobby'. Kirat recounts the emotional and psychological impact of the deception, the role of family dynamics, and the challenges she faced in seeking justice. This conversation also explores themes of coercive control, the importance of having a support system, and the healing journey post-trauma. We highlight the complexities of recognising manipulative behaviours and the societal pressures that can exacerbate such situations. An essential watch for anyone looking to understand the nuances of online abuse and the resilience required to overcome it. 02:12 Kirat's Story: The Netflix and Podcast Experience 03:37 The Complexity of the Catfishing Scheme 06:55 The Evolution of Online Relationships 09:59 The Emotional Manipulation Tactics 13:52 The Elaborate Web of Deceit 21:29 The Turning Point: Bobby's Marriage and Aftermath 35:29 Family Struggles and Support 35:45 Navigating Relationships and Traditions 36:15 From Friendship to Romance 38:25 Balancing Work and Personal Life 42:43 Witness Protection and Complications 47:07 Emotional Turmoil and Relationship Dynamics 01:05:07 Marriage Expectations and Cultural Pressures 01:08:05 Balancing Tradition and Modernity 01:09:20 The Catfishing Revelation 01:10:46 Unraveling the Deception 01:12:42 The Emotional and Legal Aftermath 01:14:32 Seeking Justice and Accountability 01:16:06 The Impact of Sharing the Story 01:18:47 Healing and Moving Forward 01:41:40 Advice for Others and Final Thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for more discussions on mental health, personal growth, and healing! / @shivanipaupodcast KEEP IN TOUCH: 🌍 My website - www.shivanipau.com 📸 Instagram - / shivani.pau Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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