Tan France: Your Past Doesn't Define You - How To Find Strength to Break Barriers and Be Yourself

Remember the feeling of excitement as a child when you spotted someone who looked like you on TV? That rush of validation and connection is at the heart of why representation matters.  On this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry, I had the pleasure of speaking with Tan France, a prominent fashion designer, television personality, and author. He’s best known for his chic style and groundbreaking role as a fashion expert on the Emmy-winning series, "Queer Eye."  In this episode, Tan delves into how his unique background has shaped his perspective on fashion and identity, and he shares his journey of overcoming cultural barriers to become a voice of change in the fashion industry. Don't miss this episode with Tan France, as he opens up about his life challenges, cultural influences, and the personal evolution that has shaped him. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:42 From pain to purpose 03:38 Moving out of the UK 09:56 Finding freedom in love 14:15 Relationship between race and self-acceptance 20:03 The burden of minority representation 24:55 Fame and responsibility 28:07 Embracing the duality and maintaining happiness 32:56 What determines a real friendship? 41:26 Is Tan a member of the Illuminati? 44:34 Building confidence and overcoming imposter syndrome 51:59 Wanting to walk away from fame 58:11 Maintaining positivity online 1:01:55 Practicing gratitude 1:04:37 Dealing with rudeness 1:06:23 Rapid fire questions with Tan 1:13:41 What type of crier is Tan France?   Follow Tan: https://www.instagram.com/tanfrance/ https://www.tiktok.com/@tanfrance https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCn2YVZBKTWITFiCqMPGfHcA   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry! There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective.  Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more.