S4E9: Can One Mistake Ruin My College Chances?

In this episode of the Admittedly Podcast, host Thomas Caleel addresses a question that has been coming up more and more often: “I made a mistake—am I done?” Whether it’s academic dishonesty, a suspension, or even a school dismissal, students are understandably afraid these missteps have ended their college dreams. But as Thomas explains, what matters most is how you respond, own your mistake, and demonstrate growth. This episode dives into the real consequences of disciplinary and academic infractions, how colleges evaluate these issues, and—most importantly—how students can take back control of their narrative and future. Redemption is not only possible, but it can be powerful—if handled the right way. Key Topics Discussed: Can one mistake really ruin your college admissions chances? The difference between academic and disciplinary issues in the application process Why academic dishonesty is taken so seriously—and how to move forward What to do if you’ve been suspended or disciplined How and when to disclose infractions on your college application The importance of owning your mistake and showing maturity and growth Steps to rebuild trust with your school and future colleges Letters of support: who to ask and why they matter Stories of redemption and what admissions officers are truly looking for Everyone makes mistakes—it’s part of being human. What sets successful applicants apart isn’t perfection, but their willingness to take responsibility, grow, and keep pushing forward. If you’re facing a setback, don’t despair. Get in front of it, take the right steps, and don’t be afraid to ask for help. Your future is still in your hands. We want to hear from you. If you've gone through something similar and come out stronger—share your story with us on social media @admittedlyco on Instagram and TikTok. Let’s uplift and support each other.

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Does thinking about applying to college, grad school, or prep school make your head spin? The Admittedly Podcast is for both parents and students preparing for or navigating school admissions. We aim to demystify the admissions process and share with you what you really need to know to succeed. Our host, Thomas Caleel, former director of MBA admissions and financial aid for the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania, is here to help. He is a lifelong entrepreneur and CEO of a global admissions consulting agency where he works with families worldwide to help them achieve their educational goals. New episodes go live every Tuesday and Thursday. Learn from our guest speakers, live coaching sessions, and weekly solo episodes. Have admissions questions you'd like answered on the show? Apply to be coached by Thomas himself on one of our upcoming recordings. In this podcast, we don't promise easy answers or quick fixes. But with decades of experience under his belt, Thomas will address the practical aspects of applying to school and how to think like an admissions officer to improve your college or prep school application.