How Dysfunctional Childhood Coping Behaviors Hold Us Back
Growing up in a dysfunctional household can shape a child's coping mechanisms, creating habits that once helped them survive but later become obstacles in adulthood. These learned behaviors, while crucial for navigating chaotic environments, can hinder emotional growth, self-acceptance, and healthy relationships. In this episode, we explore the common coping mechanisms adult children of dysfunctional families often carry into adulthood and how they can unlearn these patterns for healthier living.One common coping strategy is people-pleasing, developed to avoid conflict or rejection. While it served to maintain peace as a child, in adulthood it leads to difficulties setting boundaries, burnout, and resentment from neglecting one's own needs. Hyper-independence is another pattern many children from dysfunctional families adopt as a means of self-protection when caregivers were unreliable. This can translate to struggles with trust, a reluctance to ask for help, and feelings of isolation in relationships.The episode also touches on how avoidance of emotions, conflict, or authenticity can severely limit growth. These behaviors, developed in childhood to protect the child from emotional pain or conflict, may prevent individuals from fully experiencing and expressing themselves in adulthood. We explore how inner child work can support healing these patterns by nurturing the parts of us that were neglected or misunderstood during childhood.As a trauma-informed coach, I work with individuals ready to unpack these deep-rooted patterns and move toward healing. If you are ready to break free from these survival patterns and step into a more authentic, fulfilling life, I invite you to reach out for a free discovery call. Together, we can start building the tools for lasting change and healing.Suggested Reading:The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice MillerRunning on Empty by Dr. Jonice WebbComplex PTSD: From Surviving to Thriving by Pete WalkerAttn: All speakers, healers, coaches, therapists, and authors. We need you to share your wisdom. I am starting a series of courses called "Collective Wisdom Healing Series" It is a bundle of 50 courses, all created with the wisdom from people like you. If you want to find out how to grow your business in one of these amazing courses for less than 3 cents a day, let me know. Book a quick chat, and let's talk about how your widsom can make a legacy and help thousands around the world.. https://calendly.com/tammyvincent/new-meetingGrab My Signature Course "Trials To Triumph: An Adult Childs Emotional Freedom Blueprint" for just $24 (a $173 Savings) Grab it here: https://www.tammyvincent.com/course USe code "HEALFOR24" to grab the savings.Do you have a question you want answered on the next episode of "Adult Child of Dysfunction": Visit https://www.speakpipe.com/Tammyvincentcoaching and ask the question. Make sure you tell me who you are so that I can let you know when the answer goes live!Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1087928608822377Learn How Essential Oils Can Help You Fix What