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RECOMMENDED BOOK:  Brave Not Perfect  Written By Reshma Saujani Question: How tf do you deal  comparison? You’re surrounded by beautiful women in LA everyday, how do you not ever feel insecure?? I think I’m attractive and then I’m around one beautiful girl and I start comparing literally everything and I think I’m not pretty anymore and start thinking I should dye my hair like her, or talk like her, or wear the shoes she wears, it’s honestly so draining. Question: HOW TO STOP PUTTING PEOPLE & THINGS ON PEDESTALS? Question: Be honest Char cuz i can sense it, you hate hookup culture & have never involved yourself, correct? Question: what do you think is the most challenging part of being a model? Question: how can i build deeper connections with people? i feel like i never have something to say. Question: Where did you get your confidence? Question: I constantly find validation from guys and it’s up to the attention that I get from guys whether I feel confident or not. How do I stop being like this? Every time a guy stops talking to me i get super insecure and start to feel like I just wasn’t enough for them or start to compare myself to the girls that they talk to after me. Question: Any advice on how to stop holding  yourself back? I  know i havent really fully been living my life but ive been scared to risk the safety & peace i have in it. Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wherever you're listening or by using this link: https://bit.ly/BetweenGoodEvil_General Follow Charlotte on: IG: @charlottedalessio TikTok: @charlottedalessio To watch the Between Good and Evil podcast videos on YouTube: https://bit.ly/BtwnGandEYouTube Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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Even at 18, Charlotte D’Alessio was developing a cult following on her blog. Shortly after she decided to turn the blog Between Good & Evil into a podcast. Being able to connect with fans, friends and guests in person was taking the blog to the next level. Each episode Charlotte will sit down and answer questions from fans, share her own experiences, and will dive in with her guests probing them on all life’s curiosities. Make sure to subscribe so that you don’t miss out on the discussions on who people are, why they behave the way they do, and how to all around become a better human being.