Declare your desire: how to say what you want so you can go after it

Do you have a dream you keep to yourself or play off as “someday,” because you think it’s impractical to go after right now? Maybe when the kids are older, right? So we fill our days with “busy,” which is hard to avoid in certain seasons of life. But if we’re not careful, “busy” can turn into a never-ending distraction from our dreams.

Sound familiar? Then this episode is for you.

This week, I’m sharing why declaring your desire is essential to a fulfilling life, the three hurdles you have to overcome in order to achieve your dreams, and talking with others about your goals may be the most helpful thing you can do.

Show highlights include:

  • The three roadblocks you have to push through to get what you want (5:48)
  • How you can avoid the pitfall where many women lose sight of their dreams and settle for less (6:15)
  • This is the first step in overcoming your fear of judgment from others (6:43)
  • If you get comfortable accepting this barrier, you’ll never get what you want from life (9:53)
  • This particular fear can stop you before you even get started, even when you have a clear plan for defeating it (12:31)
  • Why discussing this particular issue with others can open doors you never imagined (13:15)
  • The 2 steps you must take to get what you want (16:12)

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You deserve a big, full life and the freedom to enjoy it. The Brilliant Balance Podcast helps women in leadership design their next chapter for sustainable success—without burnout. Every week, host Cherylanne Skolnicki, a leading expert in work-life balance, leadership growth, and mindset coaching, shares ideas, inspiration, and insights to help high-achieving women align their ambition with personal fulfillment. Through conversations on leadership mindset, time management, and personal growth, you'll gain the tools to thrive in both your career and personal life. Whether you're considering a career pivot or craving more time for your personal life, you might find yourself asking: How do I advance my career—without working 24/7? Can I achieve my goals while still having time for my family? How do I stop feeling overwhelmed and start feeling in control? What’s next for me—and how do I design it intentionally? If you’ve ever wondered how to fulfill your potential without breaking your life, this podcast is for you. In addition to sharing her own insights, Cherylanne sits down with experts, thought leaders, and ambitious women who reveal their strategies for burnout recovery, productivity for women, and redefining success on their terms. You’ll love the Brilliant Balance Podcast if you like podcasts like: Unlocking Us or Dare to Lead with Brene Brown, Women at Work by Harvard Business Review, The Midlife with Reshma Saujani, We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle, The Mel Robbins Podcast, HerMoney with Jean Chatzky, So Money with Farnoosh Torabi