How to feel happier

Have you ever said, “I’ll be so happy when…” or “I won’t be happy until…”? Or felt let down upon achieving a huge life goal? 

This is common for high-achieving women. Nothing is worse than staking your happiness on a goal, only to feel empty when you get what you thought you wanted.

But it doesn’t have to be that way. 

In this episode, I discuss how to make sure you’re pursuing the right goals, why the process is so critical, and how to be happier along the way.

Show highlights include:

  • The surprising reason your goals and aspirations are preventing your happiness (3:54)
  • Why “moving the finish line” makes you happier and more satisfied. (7:43)
  • The first thing you must identify for any goal to avoid depression at the finish line (9:47)
  • Why certain actions cause you tremendous stress and how you can fix it instantly (10:59)
  • How to immediately recognize you’re pursuing the wrong goal and correct your course before it steals your joy (11:54)
  • Why having an 8-figure business could make you hate your life (13:14)
  • How to build rich, rewarding relationships with less driven family members AND enjoy the process (15:10)
  • Why the process is the key to achieving your goals and being happy at the same time (15:51) 

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You deserve a big, full life and the freedom to enjoy it. The Brilliant Balance Podcast helps women in leadership design their next chapter for sustainable success—without burnout. Every week, host Cherylanne Skolnicki, a leading expert in work-life balance, leadership growth, and mindset coaching, shares ideas, inspiration, and insights to help high-achieving women align their ambition with personal fulfillment. Through conversations on leadership mindset, time management, and personal growth, you'll gain the tools to thrive in both your career and personal life. Whether you're considering a career pivot or craving more time for your personal life, you might find yourself asking: How do I advance my career—without working 24/7? Can I achieve my goals while still having time for my family? How do I stop feeling overwhelmed and start feeling in control? What’s next for me—and how do I design it intentionally? If you’ve ever wondered how to fulfill your potential without breaking your life, this podcast is for you. In addition to sharing her own insights, Cherylanne sits down with experts, thought leaders, and ambitious women who reveal their strategies for burnout recovery, productivity for women, and redefining success on their terms. You’ll love the Brilliant Balance Podcast if you like podcasts like: Unlocking Us or Dare to Lead with Brene Brown, Women at Work by Harvard Business Review, The Midlife with Reshma Saujani, We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle, The Mel Robbins Podcast, HerMoney with Jean Chatzky, So Money with Farnoosh Torabi