Strategically Selfish: Is it ever okay to do something for yourself? (Encore episode)

When you hear the word ‘selfish,’ you might think of a person who focuses only on themselves. It’s portrayed as a negative trait that puts us above others. But being selfish isn’t as bad as you think. And if you spend all of your time focused on everyone else, you’ll quickly burn out.   You need selfishness to steer life in the direction you want, create better relationships, and feel a sense of self-worth. An investment in yourself is an investment in those around you.  In this episode, you’ll learn how to be strategically selfish and why it creates a more meaningful and happy home life.  Show highlights include: Why being selfish makes you a more graceful, patient, and purposeful person (2:13) Why most people end up getting a compromised, drained version of you - and the ‘me time’ essential for revitalizing your energy today  (5:12) The selfish investments that add hours to your day and grant more family time (8:40) Why going to a Friday night book club or spending time on crafts makes a happier household (11:47) The ‘strategically selfish’ principle for investing in your best self (without feeling guilty or ungrateful in the process) (13:35)  ***A NEW 30 DAY PROGRAM TO INCREASE YOUR ENERGY JUST IN TIME FOR SUMMER, RESOURCES, & SOCIAL LINKS*** Join hundreds of women who increased their energy in 30 days with our new 30 Days to Vibrant Energy experience: https://brilliant-balance.com/energy Need a few mini moments of peace? Listen to our free 5 Minute Meditation: https://brilliant-balance.com/breathe/ Book Cherylanne to speak at your next event: www.brilliant-balance.com/speaker Not sure where to start? Book a free chat: www.brilliant-balance.com/schedule Follow us on Instagram: www.instagram.com/brilliant_balance Join our private Facebook Group: www.facebook.com/groups/281949848958057

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You deserve a big, full life and the freedom to enjoy it. The Brilliant Balance Podcast helps women in leadership design their next chapter for sustainable success—without burnout. Every week, host Cherylanne Skolnicki, a leading expert in work-life balance, leadership growth, and mindset coaching, shares ideas, inspiration, and insights to help high-achieving women align their ambition with personal fulfillment. Through conversations on leadership mindset, time management, and personal growth, you'll gain the tools to thrive in both your career and personal life. Whether you're considering a career pivot or craving more time for your personal life, you might find yourself asking: How do I advance my career—without working 24/7? Can I achieve my goals while still having time for my family? How do I stop feeling overwhelmed and start feeling in control? What’s next for me—and how do I design it intentionally? If you’ve ever wondered how to fulfill your potential without breaking your life, this podcast is for you. In addition to sharing her own insights, Cherylanne sits down with experts, thought leaders, and ambitious women who reveal their strategies for burnout recovery, productivity for women, and redefining success on their terms. You’ll love the Brilliant Balance Podcast if you like podcasts like: Unlocking Us or Dare to Lead with Brene Brown, Women at Work by Harvard Business Review, The Midlife with Reshma Saujani, We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle, The Mel Robbins Podcast, HerMoney with Jean Chatzky, So Money with Farnoosh Torabi