116: Rejection, Being Chosen, Societal Pressures, Triggers, & Intentional Dating feat. Todd Dorsey, Becca von Bereghy, Taylor Peterson, & Mariam Hassan
In this episode, we chat with Todd Dorsey, Becca, Taylor & Mari, and dive deeper towards the pressure put on women by society, self-discovery, empowerment, and the significance of self-respect and honesty in relationships. Get ready to unlock the secrets to loving and creating more peace for yourself. [4:12] Societal Pressure “The doctor was like ‘You need to have kids by 35’… That is so much pressure for any woman.” [6:42] Expectations “Sometimes it feels like all of your (women) happiness, hopes, and dreams hinge on us (men)… It’s almost like they want me to fit this role for them.” [9:20] Double Standards and Self-Pressure “When I see a 50-year-old (man) at the club, it’s nothing new, but when I see a 35-year-old woman who is single with no kids,’What’s wrong with her?’” [12:30] Wanting to be Chosen “At the end of the day… I wanted the attention, I wanted to be chosen… I wanted you to follow through and I felt like I was let down.” [18:52] Romeo-and-Juliet Relationship I don’t regret the relationship… He just wasn’t right for the things I was ready for.” [24:34] Managing Emotions “I don’t care what happened because it happened and there’s nothing I could do… I can only control how I react.” [36:00] First Impressions “Guys in first month or so....they put on an act and impress, and I heard it from multiple men, guy friends, guys I did a podcast with, to impress a girl.” [38:14] Men fickleness “When a guys is setting a girl for an expectation of a relationship that he has no intention of fulfilling, he is immediately creating a problem for himself.” [39:59] Woman’s Strong Intuitions “It's crazy when a woman's body acts up...intuition is real” [42:30] Friendly Love “When people in your life who love you, are seeing you in your best-self...they are seeing you for who you are and they will protect that person.” [44:44] Taking Responsibility “Taking responsibility. You can free yourself and it creates a lot more peace about how you feel towards that other person.” [48:30] Don’t Stop Being Kind “If you're a person who has so much love and light and you have your heart broken, don't stop putting that love in the Universe because it will come back to you.” [53:55] Men as Catalyst of Relationships “Every relationship is basically started by men, we're the ones that do the pursuing.” [59:30] Seek and Provide Honesty “If I want someone to be honest with me. I need to incentivize the honesty… I’ll be like I legit want what’s best for you.” Follow Todd Dorsey on instagram @the.todd.patrick Follow Becca von Bereghy on instagram @becca_vonbereghy Follow Taylor Peterson on instagram @thetaylorpeterson.jpg Follow Merri Mari on instagram @merrymari29 Please download, rate & review this episode and share it with friends! Connect with Kelly here: Follow Me on Instagram at @chaselifewithkelly Follow Me on TikTok at @iamkellychase Subscribe to My YouTube Channel Join the ChaseLife with Kelly Community! Goddess Magic Program Kelly’s Favorites Visit Our Website!