From Nurse Practitioner to Somatic Coach: Beatriz Victoria Albina on Healing Self-Abandonment
Our esteemed guest is Beatriz Victoria Albina, nurse practitioner, somatic coach, speaker; creator of the term Emotional Outsourcing; host of Feminist Wellness; author of the forthcoming book Emotional Outsourcing (book page); more on Bea at beatrizalbina.com.If you’ve ever felt your worth was tied to how useful you are, Bea offers a science-backed, somatic path out of people-pleasing, perfectionism, and codependency—so you can become your own guiding light.Why this teacher matters: “Bea understands that when we stop outsourcing our worth, we finally come home to ourselves, because she has learned this in her own life and discipline. This conversation maps the route to a nervous-system first, slow and sustainable, deeply embodied life, and to truly exceptional teaching.What we coverThe core belief “my value is what I can do for others” and how it shapes identity, health – and your coaching practiceBea’s move from family nurse practitioner to somatic coach after seeing what prescriptions couldn’t fixWhat Emotional Outsourcing really means (and why the old labels didn’t land)The physiological toll of chronic self-abandonment (digestion, thyroid, energy, anxiety)Ventral vagal regulation: why safety is the precondition for lasting changePractical somatic tools: orienting, interoception, “kitten steps,” bodily needs before inbox needsThe effect of our culture lens: patriarchy / capitalism / colonialism and how systems inform our values and our teachingBoundaries from the body vs. “performative” boundaries from the headCoaching: what level of regulation, authenticity, shadow work, and refusing the pedestal is necessary for true masteryListen for these gems“Catharsis is cute—slow changes lives.”“I am safe enough.” (Why the enough matters to your nervous system.)“If your boundary isn’t felt in the body, you’ll fold like an origami swan.”“My goal is for my clients not to need me.” – ULTIMATE coach statement!Try this →Bea’s 2-minute practice for PresenceLook around the room and name 5 things you see.Tell yourself: “I am safe enough to be present.”Feel your feet. Inhale and drop your breath down to your feet.Honor one body cue (pee, sip water, step outside for sunlight).Repeat hourly—slow is smooth; smooth is fast.One tiny script that changes everythingWhen you want to reflexively say yes: “I need to think about that.”Create space. Check your body. Decide from self-respect, not approval-seeking.Links & resourcesBea’s website: beatrizalbina.comBea’s podcast Feminist Wellness: beatrizalbina.com/podcastBea’s book Emotional Outsourcing: beatrizalbina.com/bookSir Ken Robinson TED Talk: Do Schools Kill Creativity?Timestamps...