First Date Debate & Commitment Phobe

Lauren Frances, Love and Relationships Expert, talks all about first dates from when they start (it’s not when you think) to how to graciously end one that’s just not working for you. And our Dear Damona question of the week is, “My match is great, not a single dealbreaker, and I STILL can’t wrap my head around commitment. What now?” Want to join Lauren’s incredible Love Magnet Makeover? Just visit DamonaHoffman.com/lovemagnet Submit your questions for Dear Damona on any of the socials @DamonaHoffman or by visiting DamonaHoffman.com Timestamps Intro (00:00:00)   The First Date Starts Early (00:00:09)   Preparation for First Dates (00:00:14)   Value of First Dates (00:01:05)   Introducing Lauren Francis (00:02:05)   Persistence in Publishing (00:03:09)   Timing in Dating (00:04:38)   Transitioning to Phone Calls (00:05:53)   Setting Up Phone Conversations (00:07:25)   Importance of Privacy (00:09:10)   Breaking the Ice (00:11:21)   Choosing the Right Date Venue (00:12:18)   Being Seen on Dates (00:13:06)   Creating the Right Vibe (00:15:02)   Understanding Enthusiasm in Dating (00:16:35)   The Enthusiasm Gap (00:20:37)   First Dates as Your Party (00:21:37)   Heartache Prevention Tips (00:25:12)   Compatibility and Actions Over Words (00:30:07)   Ghosting and Relationship Alignment (00:31:02)   Rejection Reasons (00:32:58)   Ending Dates Positively (00:34:04)   Creating a Great First Impression (00:35:02)   Love Magnet Makeover Introduction (00:36:01)   Details of Love Magnet Makeover (00:37:04)   A Listener's Commitment Question (00:40:04)   Navigating Relationship Fears (00:41:07)   Understanding Commitment (00:42:19)   Empowerment in Relationships (00:48:00) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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From navigating dating apps to overcoming the friendzone to seeking a soulmate, this ain’t your momma’s love advice! Hosted by the Official Love Expert of The Drew Barrymore Show and LA Times advice columnist, Damona Hoffman, Dates & Mates is jam-packed with interviews from your favorites celebs, authors, and experts. Dates & Mates is the 2022 Winner of The Best Podcast of the Year at The Black Podcasting Awards, #1 ranked love and relationship podcast by Cosmopolitan Magazine and a Top 10 Pick by HuffPost in the love category.