Confessions With Katie Thurston - Ep 266

It's a BIG day, Shandies! We've been wanting to pick the lovely Katie Thurston's brain since we first recapped her Bachelorette season 2.5 years ago, and at long last, that day is here. Plus, it's been awhile since we've had a Confessions episode and we're thrilled this former Bachelorette and current star of F-Boy Island could make the time to join us! Katie's had a very busy and very public last 3 years, so today we talk the ins and outs of watching yourself back on TV, whether contestants behave differently IRL versus on TV, what she's learned about human nature after being on the receiving end of MILLIONS of opinions. What has been the key difference between dating "civilians" versus celebrities, has her notoriety helped or hurt her love life, and has her time on TV changed her personal relationships? And for our longtime Shandies, don't worry, Andy also brings up THOMAS! Multiple times. (See time stamps!) Don't miss Katie on Season 3 of F-Boy Island, currently airing on Hulu and the CW! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.athenaclub.com and use code DEARSHANDY for a free Gentle Body Scrub with your razor kit subscription! - Go to https://www.shopbeam.com/SHANDY for up to 50% off! More Katie: - Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thekatiethurston - Comedy: https://beacons.ai/katiethurston Time Stamps: 0:00 - Welcome To Katie Thurston! 2:47 - How Has She Navigated Honoring Her Needs While Accommodating Production? 4:49 - The Most Common Misconception About Being The Lead Of A Dating Show 7:06 - Backlash That Has Surprised Her 7:45 - Thomas 8:31 - Have People She Met On TV Been Totally Different IRL? 9:52 - Has She Ever Felt Her Choices Were Misrepresented? 12:51 - What Have The Last 3 Years Taught Her About Herself? 15:00 - What Has She Learned About Human Nature? 17:34 - Resilience 19::49 - Parasocial Relationships 21:45 - Is IRL Dating Easier Or Harder Now? 23:54 - Dating “Civilians” Vs Celebrities 27:03 - Is Dating On TV A Microcosm For Dating IRL? 28:20 - Thomas 29:21 - Would She Always Pick Someone On TV That She Would Have Picked IRL? 30:34 - How Has What She’s Looking For In A Partner Changed? 33:21 - How Notoriety Affects Personal Relationships  38:30 - Does She Consider Herself A Private Person? 39:18 - In What Ways Is Her Personality Suited To This And In What Ways Is It Not? 43:35 - Would She Have Had The Courage To Pursue Comedy Without All This? 48:53 - One Regret & One Choice She’s Proud Of 51:30 - Blake Moynes 53:22 - Her Social Media Habits 54:26 - True Or False 55:17 - Thomas 56:20 - True Or False, Cont’d 59:02 - Shandy Debrief 1:04:02 - Thomas If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy More Dear Shandy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Facebook - https://fb.me/dearshandy More Sharleen Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Blog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.com More Andy Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Produced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!