Q&A! Too Much Perfume, Feeling Shallow, & The Lost Art Of Going Slow - Ep 231

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If your boyfriend still has "favorited" photos of his ex on his phone, is that cause for concern? Are you shallow if you'd like your partner to make a cosmetic change? If your mother-in-law's perfume stays in the house long after she's gone, is it worth saying something? And whatever happened to taking things slow? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take! Thanks to our sponsors! - Go to https://www.cozyearth.com/SHANDY and use code SHANDY at checkout to save 40%! Time Stamps: 0:00 - Housekeeping (Sort Of?) 1:39 - Q1: My Boyfriend Still Has Photos Of His Ex On His Phone—Is This A Red Flag? 6:09 - Q2: My Brother’s Girlfriend Is Sensitive That He Used To Date My Friend—Should I Distance Myself In The Friendship To Support My Future Sister-In-Law? 9:45 - Q3: Is “Taking Things Slowly” A Lost Art? 21:38 - Q4: I Love My Husband Except For One Cosmetic “Flaw”—Should I Bring It Up Or Am I Just Shallow? 36:47 - Q5: A Friend Called Me By The Wrong Name—Should I Correct Him Or Is This A Fluke? 41:03 - Q6: At What Point Do You Weigh Stability Against Happiness? 59:35 - Q7: My Mother-In-Law’s Perfume Is Stinking Up Our House—Help! If you have a relationship question, write us at: dearshandy@gmail.com Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy Follow us! Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Dear Shandy is a dating advice podcast where Sharleen Joynt and her husband Andy Levine answer your burning relationship questions from the perspective of a happily married couple. Sharleen and Andy are two fiercely independent people who are skeptical of love stories and don’t believe in fate, soulmates, or The One. So how did they wind up so happily married? They learned the dating lessons by living them. Get no-holds-barred, honest advice from two people who actually have what you want: a fun, blissful partnership. But there's more! As an iconic former Bachelor contestant, Sharleen invites Bachelor Nation couples on for intimate double dates called Love Fests. Last, but certainly not least, Sharleen brings her insider knowledge and Andy delivers hilarious comic relief to combine for what are hands down the best Bachelor recaps in the business. New episodes drop every Thursday, and during Bachelor seasons, recaps drop on Tuesdays!