Stop Rushing Your Healing: How to Align Intention, Patience, and Courage

In this episode of the Decoding Success podcast, I’m diving deep into the complexities of the tension between wanting to heal and actually being ready for it. I share some personal stories and insights on why self-assessment is key, why it’s vital to set intentions, and how trusting in divine timing can make all the difference in your journey. If you’ve ever felt frustrated when your healing doesn’t happen fast enough or wondered why painful emotions keep resurfacing, this conversation will help you see why patience and courage are so crucial for genuine transformation. KEY POINTS / TAKEAWAYS Desire vs. Divine Timing I’ve learned that just because we want to heal right now doesn’t mean we’re fully prepared for it. Healing Can’t Be Rushed My own experiences taught me that healing follows its own timeline, no matter how much we try to force it. Self-Assessment Is Crucial I emphasize the importance of being real with ourselves, recognizing our emotional state, and figuring out if we’re truly ready to do the work. Pain as a Motivator Sometimes it’s that deep ache that ultimately pushes us to take real, purposeful action toward healing. Intention-Setting Having a clear “why” helps focus our healing efforts and makes them more effective. Navigating Emotions I talk about how real healing is about understanding and moving through negative feelings, not just wishing them away. Inner Resources I believe we already have what we need inside of us; it’s just a matter of tapping into our inner strength. Effort vs. Outcome While we can control our commitment and work ethic, we can’t always control how quickly results will appear. Courage Matters Healing can be scary. It requires us to confront painful truths, but that courage is exactly what fuels genuine growth. CHAPTERS / TIMESTAMPS [00:00] The Burden of Bad News [01:07] The Journey of Healing [04:00] The Reality of Healing Timelines [07:52] Self-Assessment in Healing CALL TO ACTION / LINKS / RESOURCES Connect with Me: Website: https://mattlebris.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/matt_lebris/ Twitter: https://x.com/Matt_LeBris TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@matt_lebris

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