how to effectively listen when you debate at work

This episode delves into the critical role of listening, particularly in the context of debates and the competitive advantage provided to participants. Sasan Kisravi explains the significance of preparation in debate, especially when preparing both sides of the argument. When preparing both sides of an argument, you can discover and  anticipate the counterpoints that will help you discover multiple approaches to the same issue. The concept of "competitive listening" is emphasized, and it is important to understand an opponent's argument and analyze its impact on the judge and audience. Note-taking is a crucial tool for effective listening, but there is a difference between traditional note-taking and a more strategic approach. The latter involves creating a visual map of arguments, identifying key points, and tracking the flow of the discussion. This method allows listeners to maintain focus, identify unaddressed points, and ultimately gain a clearer understanding of the debate. The conversation also touches on the psychological aspects of listening, highlighting the importance of motivation and purpose. By understanding the nuances of effective listening, individuals can improve their communication skills, build stronger relationships, and achieve greater success at work.   Listening is a competitive advantage: Effective Listening is crucial for success in debates and workplace communication. Preparation is key: Understanding both sides of an argument and anticipating counterpoints is essential for effective listening and responding. Note-taking is a strategic tool: Creating visual maps of arguments helps maintain focus, identify key points, and analyze the flow of the discussion.     www.listening.com Where to start? Start here How to listen like a High Court Judge with Justice Michael Kirby Listen like World Memory Champion Dr Boris Konrad Brooklyn Debate League 01:38:00 - The complete Munk Debate - Mainstream Media featuring Douglas Murray, Matt Taibbi, Malcolm Gladwell, Michelle Goldberg November 30, 2022 00:47:36 The original Phuskin Industries Revisionist History Podcast Episode - Malcolm goes to debate school – complete audio episode April 13, 2023 00:10:10 Douglas Murray on Malcolm Gladwell: "I Still Don't Feel Pity"  

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The world is a noisy place where you fight to be heard every day. Despite the fact that we have been taught at home and at school how to speak, none of us has had any training in how to listen. Multiple academic studies have shown that between 50% and 55% of your working day is spent listening, yet only 2% of people have been trained in how to listen. We feel frustrated, isolated and confused because we aren't heard. As a speaker, it takes absolutely no training to notice when someone isn't listening - they're distracted, they interrupt or drift away as you talk. Yet the opposite is also true, without any training in how to listen we struggle to stay connected with the speaker and the discussion. This results in unproductive workplaces where people fight to be heard and need to repeat themselves constantly, send emails to confirm what they said and then have follow-up meetings to ensure what was said was actually heard by those in the meeting. It's a downward spiral that drains energy from every conversation and reduces the productivity of organisations. This podcast is about creating practical tips and techniques to improve your daily listening. Listen for free