Imposter Syndrome & The Curse of Comparisonitis [Episode 042]

Imposter Syndrome and the curse of comparisonitis! This is for you if you ever catch yourself doom-scrolling and feeling so much worse by the end of it, because everybody else seems to have their act together and be happy and successful... and when compare yourself, you find yourself lacking and secretly beat yourself up, maybe even holding back on going for your dreams.We're going to talk about how to fix this, both with an 'in the moment' self-mentoring question, for when comparisonitis strikes, and with a preventative technique that could transform your life forever, in just a couple of minutes a day.What you'll discover today:What is comparisonitis and where does it come from?Three things that trigger it - aside from social mediaMy uncommon definition of Imposter Syndrome, and why this explains how it triggers comparisonitisThe secret assumption we're making when we compare ourselves with others, and how this makes us feel worseHow the 3 pillars of Imposter Syndrome contribute towards comparisonitisThe self-mentoring question that can press pause on this, and how to set yourself free from it, once and for allResources:Ditching Imposter Syndrome - read or listen to the book - page 206 has a whole section on this topic, plus my 'Turning Jealousy Around' extended exercise, or search for "The Curse Of Comparisonitis" in the eBook, or the chapter titled "The Curse Of Comparisonitis" in the audiobookStart creating breakthroughs even before bedtime tonight with the Ditching Imposter Syndrome Transformation ToolkitGet 1:1 support and ditch Imposter Syndrome in just eight weeks with the Imposter Syndrome Bootcamp™ Microwins - This is one of the strategies I teach in my Transformation Toolkit & Bootcamp trainings, and it's something we do every Friday morning in our Soultuitive® Academy - a 10-minute co-working session to celebrate your microwins! Here's how to get onto the waiting list for when doors next open to join the academy.Join in the discussion:Here's where we're discussing this over on LinkedIn.

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Want to feel bold, confident, courageous and excited about your goals and mission? But maybe you're feeling scared? Perhaps secretly self-sabotaging? Feeding your fears more than your dreams? Clare Josa's Ditching Imposter Syndrome podcast shares proven strategies, behind-the-scenes interviews and inspirational how-to for clearing out the hidden blocks that keep us stuck, dreaming big but playing small. You'll discover how to tackle secret fears, how turn your inner critic into your biggest cheerleader, how to clear out limiting beliefs, and how to make comfort zone stretching a non-scary adventure - all without pretending, white-washing or 'pushing on through the fear' (which actually makes things worse). And, as the author of Ditching Imposter Syndrome (www.DitchingImposterSyndrome.com) she's got plenty of inspiration to share with you on clearing that out, too. If you want to make the 2020s the decade that you finally get to make the impact you have been dreaming of, then let Clare's upbeat, practical approach empower and inspire you to create breakthroughs in ways that are fast, fun and forever. No more 'coping'! You deserve to thrive. The world needs you now. And the Ditching Imposter Syndrome podcast shows you how. You can find out more about Clare and her work (15+ years of specialising in mentoring hustle-hating, inspired-action-takers to change the world) here: www.ClareJosa.com - and you can grab your spot on her free 5-part Ditching Imposter Syndrome podcast kickstart training here: https://www.ditchingimpostersyndrome.com/podcast/yes/