The Internal Conflict of Disorganized Attachment

Episode 6: In this episode of Embodied Hearts, we dive into the complexities of disorganized attachment, a less-discussed attachment style that arises from inconsistent and unpredictable caregiving. I explain how this attachment type manifests in adulthood, highlighting the internal conflicts individuals face between the desire for closeness and the fear of intimacy.I also explore the impact of childhood experiences on attachment adaptations, the role of the nervous system in emotional responses, and offers practical steps for individuals to reconnect with their bodies and emotions.Key Takeaways:Disorganized attachment is often overlooked in discussions about attachment styles.Childhood experiences significantly shape attachment styles, including the influence of fearful or dismissive caregivers.Perfectionism can be a coping mechanism for those with disorganized attachment.Disorganized attachment is not a fixed state; it can change based on relationships and experiences.✨Let's stay connected:Instagram: @healwithrachelAttachment & Nervous System Quiz: Unlock HereDive deeper into the self-paced private podcast course, Reconnect: Learn MoreI offer four long-term one-on-one slots per year: Apply Here

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Welcome to Embodied Hearts, your weekly deep dive into the world of the nervous system and relationships, hosted by Rachel Staley, LCSW. This podcast is all about understanding how your body influences the way you attract and relate to others. Join Rachel and special guests for eye-opening conversations on attachment, self-love, boundaries, the nervous system, and everything in between.