How to Untangle Your Identity from Your Finances: The Separation Process (Part 2)

Welcome to Part 2 of one of the most important and personal episodes of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money. In Part 1, we exposed the damaging belief that your self-worth is tied to your net worth—and now, it’s time to do something about it. In this episode, I walk you through my four-part Separation Process—a framework to help you shift from financial shame to clarity, resilience, and empowerment. You’ll learn how to rewire the way you see yourself in relation to money, so you can stop letting your bank balance dictate your self-esteem and finally take back your financial power. You’ll walk away with: The Separation Process:Step 1 – Separate the Math from the Meaning. Learn how to treat your finances as data—not a moral scorecard—so you can make money decisions without shame. Step 2 – Inventory Your Non-Financial Value. Make a list of 10 ways you add value to the world that have nothing to do with money—and keep it close for tough days. Step 3 – Redefine Success on Your Terms. Ditch society’s hustle metric and reimagine what success looks like when it aligns with your values. Step 4 – Practice Compassionate Reality. Handle financial challenges with truth and grace, so you're solving problems—not attacking your own self-worth. Plus: The Worth Resume – a powerful tool to track the value you bring to the world that’s not on a spreadsheet Self-Worth Buffers – five daily practices that build emotional resilience and protect your identity from financial stress Real-Life Scenarios – practical scripts and strategies for common situations where self-worth and money get tangled: We will discuss: Social comparison on Instagram Financial setbacks or mistakes (like missed payments) Saying “no” to spending you can’t afford Having hard money convos with partners or family Even celebrating financial wins without letting them define you This episode is your emotional toolkit for making money decisions from strength, not shame. You are not your balance sheet—and today, we’re putting that truth into action. Follow us on Instagram: @everyonestalkinmoney Create your Worth Resume and tag us using #WorthBeyondWealth Missed Part 1? Go back and start there—it lays the emotional groundwork for everything you hear today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Ever wake up at 3 a.m. in a full-blown panic, wondering if you’ll ever have “enough” money? Maybe you’re making more than ever, but somehow, the worry never goes away. You stress over every purchase, second-guess every money move, and still feel like you’re one wrong decision away from losing it all. Here’s the truth: It’s not just about the dollars—it’s about what’s happening in your head. Welcome to Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, the podcast that finally tells it like it is: your emotions, thoughts, and habits around money are what’s keeping you stuck— not just your paycheck. Hosted by Shannah Game and Shari Rash, money experts who want to help you ditch shame, rewrite the rules, and help you feel powerful with your finances. Don't worry, this show isn’t another snooze-fest finance podcast. We're here to help you unf*ck your finances and finally build wealth in a way that actually feels good. If you’re tired of finance bros yelling at you for buying a damn latte and sick of money advice that doesn’t fit your life, hit subscribe. It’s time to unravel your money mess, rewrite your story, and start building wealth—on your terms.