Money Together: Building Love, Equity, and Wealth Without Keeping Score

Money and love don’t come with a rulebook—but they do come with plenty of emotions, power dynamics, and unspoken expectations. In this episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, I sit down with Heather and Douglas Boneparth, the husband-and-wife team behind the new book Money Together. Heather, a lawyer-turned-writer, and Douglas, a nationally recognized financial advisor, share candid insights about the real challenges couples face when it comes to money—and how to turn those challenges into stronger, more equitable partnerships. You’ll hear: Why “trust” isn’t enough when one partner disengages from money decisions. How caregiving and emotional labor factor into financial fairness. The biggest money missteps couples make (and how to avoid them). How to move from financial independence to true interdependence without losing yourself. Why “fair” doesn’t always mean “even”—and how to redefine equity when income levels differ. How to start money conversations earlier in dating to gauge compatibility. Practical ways to bring more joy and balance to your financial life as a couple. If you’ve ever wondered how to merge love and money without resentment, hidden debt, or endless fights, this episode will give you the tools and inspiration to start building wealth together. Follow Douglas on Instagram @dougboneparth Follow Heather on Instagram @averagejoelle Get their new book: Money Together: How to find fairness in your relationship and become an unstoppable financial team Be sure to like and follow the show on your favorite podcast app! Keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney Thank you to our sponsors!  Policygenius - Head to policygenius.com to compare free life insurance quotes from top companies and see how much you could save.  Ava - Help build your credit score with Meetava.com. Use promo code: Money Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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New York Times Top 4 Money Podcast with over 24 million downloads! Hosted by Shari Rash, InvestmentNews Best Wealth Manager & Advisor Under 40. Ever wake up at 3 a.m. in a full-blown panic, wondering if you’ll ever have “enough” money? Maybe you’re making more than ever, but somehow, the worry never goes away. You stress over every purchase, second-guess every money move, and still feel like you’re one wrong decision away from losing it all. Here’s the truth: It’s not just about the dollars—it’s about what’s happening in your head. Welcome to Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, the podcast that finally tells it like it is: your emotions, thoughts, and habits around money are what’s keeping you stuck— not just your paycheck. Shari Rash is a money expert who wants to help you ditch shame, rewrite the rules, and help you feel powerful with your finances. Don't worry, this show isn’t another snooze-fest finance podcast. She's here to help you unf*ck your finances and finally build wealth in a way that actually feels good. If you’re tired of finance bros yelling at you for buying a damn latte and sick of money advice that doesn’t fit your life, hit subscribe. It’s time to unravel your money mess, rewrite your story, and start building wealth—on your terms.