The Billion Dollar Question…How Much Money Is Really Enough with Ben Hockema

In this episode of "Everyone's Talkin' Money," Ben Hockema joins me to explore the idea of how much is "enough" money and what financial security looks like. We discuss how to figure out what is enough for each individual and create a financial plan that allows us to live the life we want. We dive into the detrimental effects of shame marketing and the importance of focusing on untapped potential instead. We also touch on the need to understand our relationship with money and address any shame surrounding it. Overall, we aim to help listeners achieve a calming clarity about their finances and find a balance between current spending and future savings. Links Illuminate Wealth Management Time stamps 00:04:50 Money is a tool for achieving goals and a discussion about what financial security looks like. 00:07:34 Money is a lifelong relationship with history. 00:12:41 Having debt can be burdensome for some. 00:15:07 Importance of understanding feelings and actions around money. 00:19:53 Know your goals, calculate your expenses, save 00:22:57 Automate paycheck, diversify funds, communicate financial goals. 00:26:29 Spending now or later, saving is crucial. 00:30:35 Take responsibility for your own retirement. 00:33:31 Motivate without shame focus on fulfillment. 00:36:32 Money shame leads to anxiety and complexity. Seek guidance and embrace vulnerability for clarity and growth. 00:39:44 Shame marketing, the misconception of fire movement. 00:44:38 Different perspectives on money and resources. How Shannah Can Help You: Join the Everyone’s Talkin’ Money Newsletter, where you get insider tips, exclusive content, and takeaways from each episode https://tinyurl.com/etmnewsletter  Ask Shannah a question on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/shannahgame/ or TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@shannahgame  Submit a money question for Shannah to answer in an upcoming episode https://tinyurl.com/askshannahq  Leave a 5-star Review here https://ratethispodcast.com/etm  Be a Featured Guest on an episode https://everyonestalkinmoney.com/contact/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Ever wake up at 3 a.m. in a full-blown panic, wondering if you’ll ever have “enough” money? Maybe you’re making more than ever, but somehow, the worry never goes away. You stress over every purchase, second-guess every money move, and still feel like you’re one wrong decision away from losing it all. Here’s the truth: It’s not just about the dollars—it’s about what’s happening in your head. Welcome to Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, the podcast that finally tells it like it is: your emotions, thoughts, and habits around money are what’s keeping you stuck— not just your paycheck. Hosted by Shannah Game and Shari Rash, money experts who want to help you ditch shame, rewrite the rules, and help you feel powerful with your finances. Don't worry, this show isn’t another snooze-fest finance podcast. We're here to help you unf*ck your finances and finally build wealth in a way that actually feels good. If you’re tired of finance bros yelling at you for buying a damn latte and sick of money advice that doesn’t fit your life, hit subscribe. It’s time to unravel your money mess, rewrite your story, and start building wealth—on your terms.