Ep 38: How Hyper-Independence Is Sabotaging Your Love Life (And How to Stop)

Are you too independent in love? If you’re always the one doing everything—giving, fixing, over-explaining, and struggling to receive—your hyper-independence might be sabotaging your love life.In this episode of the F*CK Trauma podcast, we’re breaking down:🔥 Why hyper-independence is a trauma response (not just a personality trait)🔥 How being “the strong one” is keeping you from the love you truly want🔥 Andreea’s powerful transformation—how she stopped chasing and was effortlessly pursued🔥 The self-concept shifts that let love flow to you instead of you working for it🔥 A mini-challenge to help you step into receiving mode today🚀 If love feels exhausting, this episode will change everything.💖 Inside Anxious to Secure in Love, I help you shift out of overfunctioning and upgrade your self-concept so love flows effortlessly.DM me on Instagram (@candicetamara_) with your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you! 💬🎧 Listen now & start receiving the love you deserve!------------------------------------------------------​ENJOYING THE F*CK TRAUMA PODCAST? If you are enjoying the F*CK TRAUMA podcast, please kindly RATE the podcast so that it helps others to find it ​ And hit the FOLLOW button to ensure you never miss an episode! We have some incredible episodes on the way!​ Thank you, I appreciate your support!______________________________________________CONNECT WITH CANDICEConnect with Candice on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch Candice on Youtube ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠​Join Candice's ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠FREE MASTERCLASS: STOP SABOTAGING RELATIONSHIPS WITH ANXIETY⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠​Join Candice's signature program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ANXIOUS TO SECURE IN LOVE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠​

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The podcast your inner child wishes you heard sooner. Hosted by trauma and mindset coach Candice Tamara, F*CK TRAUMA* is where cycle-breakers come to heal, rewire their identity, and build relationships that feel safe, secure, and soul-deep. This is your space to stop chasing love, break anxious patterns, and become the version of you who feels chosen—by you first. It’s the show that turns your triggers into triumph—and your pain into personal power. Expect raw stories, powerful mindset shifts, and no-BS truth bombs that hit deeper than therapy. You’re not broken. You’re becoming.