Ep 39: How to Date Like a Securely Attached Person (No More Games!)

If you have anxious attachment, how do you date without overthinking, chasing, or fearing rejection?Most dating advice is designed for people playing games—“Wait three days to text back” or “Act like you don’t care.” But when you're securely attached, you don’t need tactics—you move with confidence, ease, and trust.In this episode, you’ll learn:✅ The biggest shifts when you date as a securely attached person✅ How to stop chasing & start choosing from self-worth✅ Why secure people don’t overanalyze texts or wait for validation✅ How to naturally attract commitment—without forcing it✅ A powerful client success story (from anxious to secure in 30 days!)🔑 If you have anxious attachment, this episode will show you how to shift into secure energy and start dating with confidence.💖 Inside ⁠Anxious to Secure in Love⁠, I help you shift out of overfunctioning and upgrade your self-concept so love flows effortlessly.DM me on Instagram (@candicetamara_) with your biggest takeaway—I’d love to hear from you! 💬🎧 Listen now & start receiving the love you deserve!------------------------------------------------------​ENJOYING THE F*CK TRAUMA PODCAST? If you are enjoying the F*CK TRAUMA podcast, please kindly RATE the podcast so that it helps others to find it ​ And hit the FOLLOW button to ensure you never miss an episode! We have some incredible episodes on the way!​ Thank you, I appreciate your support!______________________________________________CONNECT WITH CANDICEConnect with Candice on Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Watch Candice on Youtube ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠​Join Candice's ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠FREE MASTERCLASS: STOP SABOTAGING RELATIONSHIPS WITH ANXIETY⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠​Join Candice's signature program ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ANXIOUS TO SECURE IN LOVE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠​

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The podcast your inner child wishes you heard sooner. Hosted by trauma and mindset coach Candice Tamara, F*CK TRAUMA* is where cycle-breakers come to heal, rewire their identity, and build relationships that feel safe, secure, and soul-deep. This is your space to stop chasing love, break anxious patterns, and become the version of you who feels chosen—by you first. It’s the show that turns your triggers into triumph—and your pain into personal power. Expect raw stories, powerful mindset shifts, and no-BS truth bombs that hit deeper than therapy. You’re not broken. You’re becoming.