65. Leap & The Net Will Appear: Developing Trust in Yourself + The Divine when Changing Your Life

This episode is for anyone considering changing their life-path: leaving a job, moving cities or countries, changing who they surround themselves with, starting a business, leaving a relationship - ending a chapter & beginning a new one. For anyone who finds themselves teetering at the edge of a cliff - knowing that they want to take a leap, knowing they feel called to close a door to open a new one, but is scared of what's on the other side, who is scared of free-falling. I've been there. And this episode is something I wish I would've had when I was there. It's been two months since I leaped off that cliff, and I've learned a lot in the process. Sometimes, our lives change in the matter of a moment without our input. And somehow, everything does work out. But other times, we have to be the ones to make the decision, to look fear in the eye, and boldly say "I want more for my life," and co-create with a universal intelligence to give ourselves that. Sometimes, we have to trust that everything will work out while also being the force that changes our own lives. On this episode, we're talking about the fine line between trusting yourself, facing your fear, & the practical steps necessary to set yourself up well for a big life-change while also having faith in the divine + surrendering to the process. We're not leaping blindly off the cliff and free-falling into the unknown (that works for some people, but not most of us) -- we're walking up to the edge with our heads high & creating the necessary relationship with ourselves and with life to trust that when we decide to jump, there is a net to catch us. Lots of love to all of you on The Road Less Traveled <3 xx V JOIN THE DECEMBER WINTER SOLSTICE WORKSHOP HERE JOIN THE FSO COMMUNITY (BY 12/21) FOR FREE ACCESS TO THE DECEMBER WORKSHOP + FREE/DISCOUNTED ACCESS ALL FUTURE WORKSHOPS <3 (I post monthly meditations + guides that go along with the episode in the community!! Consider joining to support the show :)) x IF YOU ARE A FREQUENT LISTENER OF FSO, RATE THE SHOW ON YOUR PREFERRED STREAMING PLATFORM! LET ME KNOW YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS EPISODE <3 + STAY CONNECTED THROUGH: MY NEWSLETTER (scroll to the end of the page to join!) Podcast Instagram: @figuringshiiitout Personal Instagram: @222vgf TikTok: butterflyfountain x If you liked this episode, you'll like this one too! Episode 26: Intuition vs Anxiety: Building Trust With Yourself by Learning to Listen to Your Inner Wisdom Episode 60: How a Self-Discovery Journey Led me from Working in Tech to Doing Yoga Teacher Training in Bali EPISODE CHAPTERS: 0:00-11:00 Introduction + Workshop Announcement 11:00-20:00: Externalizing Happiness, Facing Ourselves, Taking Responsibility for Our Lives (Step 0) 20:00-26:00: Fear vs Intuition, Learning to Listen to Your Intuition, Daydreaming (Step 1) 26:00-29:00: Losing Friends/Outgrowing Relationships as a ByProduct of Inner Change (Step 2) 29:00-35:00: Setting Yourself Up Well + Getting REAL on What You Need to Make it Happen (Step 3) 35:00-43:00: Developing Trust in the Divine, Creating Dialogue with Life, Creating an Abundance Mindset (Step 4) 43:00-50:00: The Most Important Thing You'll Ever Learn to Do, Ways to Practice Letting Go & Surrender (Step 5) 50:00: The Foundation of Developing the Trust to Take Leaps of Faith (Episode Summary) See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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