7. Embarrassment is a Choice - Finding Your Voice & Navigating Self-Doubt

Free yourself. Find a treasure in knowing that you have been at the rise and fall of every single one of your days, that you have surmounted all aspects of your pain, risen from it, and are in a continuous evolvement of being. You and only you. You weren't given a voice to not use it. Let go of the need to please, to listen to the inner-critic in your mind and satiate it by staying quiet. By looking to others for external validation. When you look to others for approval, you make yourself their prisoner. In this episode, we cover how to find your voice & release self-doubt by connecting with the need, ability, and inherent nature to express.  Minimize the thoughts, opinions, judgements of other people - break out of the illusion that life needs to be taken so seriously, that you need to be anything other than what you are - to connect to the authentic truth within you that quietly, yet formidably desires to be spoken. Creative callings born out of childhood often suffer from silence in adulthood. A constant judgement of ourselves. Constant pressure on our shoulders. Release them. Free yourself. Rewrite the narrative. You are the only one who can. xx SOCIALS:   Tell me what you want to hear next & follow for updates! Spiritual & Self-Help Advice -> TikTok: butterflyfountain Podcast Instagram: @figuringshiiitout Personal Instagram: @222vgf Youtube: @figuringshitout (Vanessa Fontana / Butterfly Fountain) Contact: contactbutterflyfountain@gmail.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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