How Can I Kick Impulse Buying to the Curb and Save Money?

Are impulse purchases derailing your financial goals? In this episode of Ask Ralph, Ralph Estep Jr. addresses one of the biggest traps keeping people stuck in the paycheck-to-paycheck cycle: impulse spending. Ralph unpacks why those “gotta-have-it” moments feel good for a second but wreak havoc on your finances. Using Proverbs 21:20 as a guide, he challenges listeners to replace impulsive “gulping” with intentional stewardship—starting with one simple tool: the Power Pause. This small habit will help you kick impulse buying to the curb for good.Read today's blog articleCheck out the full podcast episode hereYou’ll learn how emotional triggers like stress, boredom, and comparison fuel poor spending habits—and how a 24-hour pause can disrupt that cycle, strengthen financial self-control, and bring lasting peace. Ralph offers four key questions to ask before any unplanned purchase, helping you move from reaction to wisdom. Whether you’re working on saving, building a budget, or simply trying to make better financial decisions, this episode offers a powerful mindset shift and actionable steps to help you steward God’s resources well.Chapters:00:10 - Breaking the Cycle of Impulse Spending02:16 - Understanding Impulse Spending05:14 - Breaking the Cycle of Impulsive Spending05:30 - The Power Pause: A New Approach to Impulsive Spending08:29 - The Power of the PauseTakeaways: Impulse buying can lead to that all-too-familiar buyer's remorse we all dread after splurging. Taking a moment to pause before making purchases can drastically change your financial game. It's all about being intentional with your spending to avoid ending up broke and stressed. Ralph emphasizes the importance of a 24-hour pause to rethink those impulse buys. Understanding the triggers behind impulse spending, like stress and boredom, is crucial for change. The key to financial peace is learning to say 'no' to impulse and 'yes' to intentionality. LISTEN NOWWATCH NOW ON YOUTUBE (OUR VIDEO VERSION)WATCH NOW ON RUMBLE (OUR VIDEO VERSION)SUPPORT THE SHOWPlease share our Podcast with all your friends and family!Submit your questions or ideas for future shows - email us at ralph@askralph.com or leave a voicemail message on our podcast page Leave A Voicemail MessageBuy Ralph's Book - Mastering Your Finances! Buy Ralph's Book - Gospel of Entrepreneurship: Following Jesus in Your Business JourneyBuy Ralph's Book -

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2025 Best Christian Finance Podcast in the U.S., awarded by Best of Best Review. Money isn’t just about numbers — it’s about confidence, stewardship, and faith. If you've ever felt stuck in the cycle of financial shame, you're not alone — and you don't have to stay there. Welcome to Financially Confident Christian, where we blend Biblical wisdom, practical financial strategies, and daily encouragement to help you break free, build lasting confidence, and honor God with your resources. Hosted by Ralph Estep Jr., a seasoned financial coach with a heart for ministry, each episode offers real-world steps you can take today — no complicated jargon, no judgment — just real hope and real help. Whether you're climbing out of debt, learning to budget with purpose, or dreaming of financial freedom, this is your place to start. One step. One decision. One prayer at a time. Your story isn’t defined by your past. It's shaped by your next faithful step. Let’s walk this journey together.