situationships are self harm

2025 only hit me up about the situationships you've ended, not the situationships you're in please & thank you xoxo 1. situationship defined 2. committment from a man is not a prize 3. you’re putting the vibes in jeopardy 4. this is incompatibility not a challenge 5. compatibility is not this hard 6. take yourself seriously 7. your trauma response is not your fault, but it is your responsibility 8. he has no motivation to change, your pain is your motivation 9. self-respect starts from within 10. you’re being anti-feminist against yourself 11. show yourself what committment is 12. you can’t put a relationship on your resume 13. it only gets worse, so get out 14. knowing early is a blessing 15. radically accept your delusion 16. create boundaires, get a hobby, cut contact 17. get real with yourself 18. do it for your fellow woman 19. you lack congruence between what you want and how you act subscribe to my podcast! ♡ ⁠https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friend-crush/subscribe⁠ follow me ☆ https://instagram.com/amberakilla/ https://instagram.com/friend.crush/ https://www.tiktok.com/@amberakilla https://www.youtube.com/@amberakilla https://twitter.com/amberakilla https://soundcloud.com/amberakilla https://open.spotify.com/user/amberakilla

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Subscriber episodes also available on Patreon! https://patreon.com/amberakilla Welcome to Friend Crush with Amber Akilla! I am an Australian Chinese multi-hyphenate working in music and the creative industry. I am currently based in Shanghai, China. This is a space where I share my cute, chaotic and critical thoughts around friendship, love, relationships, dating, memes, pop culture, politics, self-help, self-empowerment and more ☆ come and join the party so you ensure you are staying hot & having fun!!! ♡ ♡ ♡