Desire Mismatch: When One of You Wants More

Every couple knows the ache of mismatched desire — when one of you is longing for more intimacy, while the other feels pulled back or pressured.In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how to reframe desire mismatch from a source of conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection, presence, and intimacy. What you’ll hear in this episode:Why mismatched desires don’t mean your relationship is broken and how to see them as an invitation.Why honouring the cycles reduces shame.How stress or safety influences your ability to feel aroused.What is the hidden emotional toll of rejection and pressure when a desire mismatch goes unspokenWhy intimacy takes practice and the simple daily rituals that reconnect you outside and inside the bedroom. Desire mismatch isn’t the end. It can be the doorway into more truth, more trust, and more erotic aliveness. Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.Here’s what you can expect November 20–24:• A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again• Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion• Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group• Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions• The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the differenceIf you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it.Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship.Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).👉 Reserve your retreat spot here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/bookgroupretreat👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit. https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcallBecause your love story deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive. About us: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.  Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/and  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

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For intimate partners who are ready to reclaim the passion, power, and deep soulful connection they know is possible...but haven’t quite known how to access… until now. Hosted by Intimacy, Relationship, and Tantra teacher Kim Coffin and her partner Roberto, this show is an unfiltered, heart-led exploration of sacred sexuality, conscious communication, emotional safety, and the alchemy of modern relationships. Together, they bring both the feminine and masculine lens...bridging trauma healing and nervous system wisdom with the raw, playful, and deeply embodied tools of Tantra. You’ll hear real conversations about: * Navigating sex and intimacy without shame or performance * Creating polarity and chemistry in long-term partnership * What it actually takes to feel seen, heard, and deeply connected * How to fight, repair, and grow without breaking your bond * Embodying your full sexual expression...and supporting your partner’s * Building sacred union, one practice at a time Whether you’re healing together, growing together, or just starting to explore sacred intimacy, this podcast is your permission slip to show up as your full self...in and out of the bedroom. Let’s take your relationship from functional…to phenomenal.