Emotional Safety: The Real Key to Deeper Sex and Lasting Intimacy

If sex feels disconnected, mechanical, or just not happening, then the real block might not be desire… it might be safety.In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy and how it creates the conditions for passion, polarity, and lasting connection. What you’ll hear in this episode:What emotional safety really means and why “not fighting” isn’t enoughHow polarity and turn-on are fuelled by safety in both masculine and feminine energyWhat is the hidden cost of ignoring safety, and how does it erode intimacy over timeWhat are some simple, daily practices that build safety, trust, and connectionWhy safety is the foundation of better sex and not just more sex.If you’re craving sex that feels alive, nourishing, and deeply connected, this episode is your reminder: it all starts with safety. OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT IS A FULL TANTRA EXPERIENCE AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPENHere’s what you’ll experience:• Practices that bring your body into safety so pleasure can expand• Tools to rewire old patterns of shame, disconnection, or performance• Sacred intimacy rituals that turn sex into something nourishing and electric• Private time to take everything you’ve learned into your own bed👉 Say yes to your aliveness and reserve your retreat spot herehttps://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this feels right for youhttps://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcallBecause when safety is present, passion naturally follows. About us: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.  Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/and  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

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For intimate partners who are ready to reclaim the passion, power, and deep soulful connection they know is possible...but haven’t quite known how to access… until now. Hosted by Intimacy, Relationship, and Tantra teacher Kim Coffin and her partner Roberto, this show is an unfiltered, heart-led exploration of sacred sexuality, conscious communication, emotional safety, and the alchemy of modern relationships. Together, they bring both the feminine and masculine lens...bridging trauma healing and nervous system wisdom with the raw, playful, and deeply embodied tools of Tantra. You’ll hear real conversations about: * Navigating sex and intimacy without shame or performance * Creating polarity and chemistry in long-term partnership * What it actually takes to feel seen, heard, and deeply connected * How to fight, repair, and grow without breaking your bond * Embodying your full sexual expression...and supporting your partner’s * Building sacred union, one practice at a time Whether you’re healing together, growing together, or just starting to explore sacred intimacy, this podcast is your permission slip to show up as your full self...in and out of the bedroom. Let’s take your relationship from functional…to phenomenal.