From Roommates to Lovers Again: Breaking Out of the Comfortable but Disconnected Phase

You love each other, share a life together, maybe even still laugh sometimes… but if you’re honest, the spark is gone. Intimacy feels flat, and you’re more like roommates than lovers.In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why the “roommate phase” happens, what it really costs, and how to shift back into passion, play, and deep intimacy. What you’ll hear in this episode:How couples silently slip into the roommate phase without even realising itWhat are the subtle and obvious signs you’re stuck in comfortable-but-disconnected energyWhat is the hidden emotional toll of staying in roommate mode, and why does it impact more than your sex lifeHow to break the cycle with daily practices that reawaken play and polarityWhy retreats create the reset you can’t get in your everyday environment If you’ve been feeling the ache of disconnection, it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It’s an invitation to reset, to choose love again, and to step into deeper intimacy. REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING.Here’s what you’ll experience:• Sacred intimacy rituals that blend healing and pleasure• Practices that make sex less about performance and more about play• Space to take everything back into your room… and let it get hot in your own way• The safety of a group container where shame dissolves and passion expands 👉 Say yes to passion that lasts and reserve your retreat spot herehttps://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fithttps://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall About us: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.   Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/and  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

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For intimate partners who are ready to reclaim the passion, power, and deep soulful connection they know is possible...but haven’t quite known how to access… until now. Hosted by Intimacy, Relationship, and Tantra teacher Kim Coffin and her partner Roberto, this show is an unfiltered, heart-led exploration of sacred sexuality, conscious communication, emotional safety, and the alchemy of modern relationships. Together, they bring both the feminine and masculine lens...bridging trauma healing and nervous system wisdom with the raw, playful, and deeply embodied tools of Tantra. You’ll hear real conversations about: * Navigating sex and intimacy without shame or performance * Creating polarity and chemistry in long-term partnership * What it actually takes to feel seen, heard, and deeply connected * How to fight, repair, and grow without breaking your bond * Embodying your full sexual expression...and supporting your partner’s * Building sacred union, one practice at a time Whether you’re healing together, growing together, or just starting to explore sacred intimacy, this podcast is your permission slip to show up as your full self...in and out of the bedroom. Let’s take your relationship from functional…to phenomenal.