The Science of Love, Desire and Attachment

Explore the heart's invisible forces by understanding the biology behind love in our latest episode, where we decode the science of love through the lens of psychology and self-improvement. Learn about the hormonal effects on romantic behaviors, the significance of attachment hormones in humans, and how understanding the neurochemistry of love can lead to better decision-making in love. We'll discuss the evolutionary psychology of human bonding, the positive and negative effects of high vasopressin, and how hormonal contraception influences emotional attachment. This insightful episode is designed for anyone seeking to deepen their understanding of love's biological foundations to enhance their emotional well-being and relationship dynamics. Stay tuned all season to join us for a journey into the heart of love's scientific secrets. - - - On the growth mindset podcast with Sam Webster Harris, we explore the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement. Success and happiness is a state of mind unique to ourselves and is our responsibility to create. Through a process of honest self-reflection of what is holding us back and what is driving us forward, we can lose the ego and build awareness of how to be our best. - - - Connect with Sam: Creativity Newsletter - Explosive Thinking Watch the pod - YouTube (Growth Mindset) - - - Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement Title: The Science of Love, Desire and Attachment Chapters: 00:00 What is love 01:20 The 3 main components of love 02:09 Pre-roll Advert 02:16 The Biology of Love 03:26 Lust and the role of sex hormones 06:35 Attraction and reward pathways 09:18 Attachment and bonding hormones 11:30 Love's addictive power and irrationality 12:37 Mid-roll 12:41 Infatuation, dependency and Controlling behaviors 13:45 Reckless and destructive tendencies 15:05 How we lose rational thinking 17:40 Choosing the right partner 19:01 Cultivating healthy relationship habits 19:40 Send Off Topics: Biology of love, attraction, and hormones Science behind romantic connections Impact of oxytocin on relationships Vasopressin and pair bonding Growth mindset thinking in romance Mindsets behind healthy relationships Neurochemistry of love Hormonal effects on romantic behaviors Testosterone and lust in love Estrogen's role in attraction Attachment hormones in humans Neurological basis of love Consequences of love hormone imbalances Chemical romance and emotional health My Chemical Romance - The science behind lust, attraction and attachment Oxytocin and trust in relationships Negative effects of high vasopressin Hormones and decision making in love Science of long-term attachment Biological differences in love perception Love addiction and dopamine Evolutionary psychology of human bonding Hormonal contraception and emotional attachment Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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There are a lot of opinions on how to master your mind, but then there’s PSYCHOLOGY. We’re all stuck with the brain we’re born with, but we aren’t stuck with how we use it. Learn science-backed answers to make the most of your mind and your life. CURIOUS? Growth Mindset Psychology is the "self-help sceptic" podcast for the curious. Whether you want to improve performance, navigate setbacks, or know who you are. We find answers to the true science of self-improvement. So put down the astrology chart and start working with your mind, instead of against it. With over 8 million downloads and 60,000 monthly listeners, you’re invited to join. PROCESS Instead of telling you what to think, we discuss how thinking works. Armed with a stack of science journals, textbooks and a boatload of curiosity, we uncover the mechanics of the mind. Why? >>> Success is personal! You might want to make the most of your neurodiverse strengths, start a business, or simply find more reasons to smile. Hone your ability for independent thinking and growth with mental models to pursue your definition of success. HOST I’m Sam Webster Harris, a lifelong learner with ADHD, a raging curiosity, and an obsession with finding answers to hard questions. After launching several businesses, travelling the world and nearly dying a few times I concluded that science and Psychology are where it’s at. What actually makes people happy? What’s the best way to treat a brain? How can I get more done? Studying the answers we find that changing behaviours requires building mindsets, mental models, and a healthy relationship with failure. I run the show to help listeners enjoy nutritious content that feeds their minds (and I needed a legitimate excuse to cover for my reading addiction). PREMIUM Go Ad-Free and listen to exclusive content. Support the show and access the AMA features and community Discord. Growth Mindset Premium ARCHIVE Previous guests include Olympians, Scientists, Billionaires, and Sam's Mum. Past series: — Psychology vs Stoicism — Time Management for busy mortals — Independence and knowing yourself — Cognitive biases and rational thinking — Psychology of connection — Carol Dweck and the Multiverse of Mindsets