#33 - The Feels of 2018

The guys take a look back on a wild year and share the feelings that inspired, moved, and challenged them in 2018. Also in this episode: - they divulge their (embarrassing) Spotify "Year in Review" results LIVE - Gabe survives a bike-totalling crash - Jaemin's tips on plugging away at chronic illness - when a friend becomes a Twitter-famous meme - and much more! ### Show Notes (1:20) Live Spotify "Year in Review" Results (6:03) **The Feelings of 2018** Gabe's #1 Feeling: Gratitude "When I think back on where we were last year and where we are now...I think, 'Holy shit, we are so lucky!'" (13:23) Jaemin's #1 Feeling: Hope "I feel like the finish line is in sight...and that's the first time I've felt that in my entire health journey" (20:04) Alan's #1 Feeling: Love "Being in LOVE is great...I highly recommend it" (27:21) Gabe's #2 Feeling: Focus "Focus for me has been about being a lot more intentional with my attention." - [Can You Like the Person You Love to Hate?](https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/03/opinion/bari-weiss-eve-peyser-friendship.html) (NYTimes) - [Twitter famous David](https://twitter.com/iankarmel/status/1064252303853723648?lang=en) (38:56) Jaemin's #2 Feeling: Connection "...12 months later, I have this 3rd community now, and it's been so wonderful. It's been bringing a lot to my life." (44:00) Alan's #2 Feeling: Calmness/Strength "That comes from going to therapy for the first time in my life." - "[What is Internal Family Systems Therapy?](https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/therapy-types/internal-family-systems-therapy)" (51:46) Looking ahead to 2019 - [Free Solo (Climbing Documentary)](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=urRVZ4SW7WU)

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Jaemin and Gabe are childhood friends whose lives went in radically different directions. Jaemin dove into spirituality, nomadism, and communal living - while Gabe organized political movements, read nerdy history books, and got married. Yet they’ve always been able to meet somewhere in the middle and learn from each other’s journeys. Join Guys with Feelings as they continue their lifelong exploration of the ideas, influences, epiphanies, and yes – the feelings – that make them better men. Find all episodes and show notes at [guyswithfeelings.co](http://guyswithfeelings.co) Email us at guyswithfeelingsshow@gmail.com