Finding closure when they won't give it to you

When a relationship ends anxious attachment personalities often feel a strong need for closure, replaying conversations in our minds and yearning for explanations. The fixation on closure stems from a primal urge to gain reassurance and understand why, but can often end up driving us into a spiral.

I'll share why closure is so important to you, and why the other person may not be willing to have a closure conversation.

I hope this episode can provide some solace and clarity amidst the chaos of heartbreak. 

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A podcast on Healing Anxious Attachment. I unpack the myths that keep you from healing, and share the road map and tools to become securely attached in love and life. Prepare to feel supported, resourced, and held as you learn about anxious attachment and what it actually looks like to heal. Send me your shifts, insights, or lightbulb moments! To go deeper: Join the Becoming Secure Community for tools, teachings, and practices to become more self confident, self-connected and secure in relationships. https://www.skool.com/healing-anxious-attachment/about Connect with me on insta: https://www.instagram.com/johhhannamaria/