She’s Calm, Collected… and Anxious AF: High-Functioning Anxiety

You look like the woman who has it all together — grounded, reliable, composed.

But underneath? You’re feeling urgent, worried, and overthinking. Managing everything. And maybe quietly unraveling.

This episode is for the high-achieving, high-functioning woman who knows something feels off but can't break through on it.

We’re talking about the kind of anxiety that hides behind performing calm.

Inside, we’ll explore:

  • What high-functioning anxiety really is — and how it hides in plain sight
  • How emotional repression becomes self-abandonment
  • The signs your body is waving the white flag (even if your mind won’t admit it)
  • What your nervous system is actually craving
  • Why healing requires more than just self-awareness

If you’ve been doing all the “right” things but still feel disconnected from yourself… this one will land.

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A podcast on Healing Anxious Attachment. I unpack the myths that keep you from healing, and share the road map and tools to become securely attached in love and life. Prepare to feel supported, resourced, and held as you learn about anxious attachment and what it actually looks like to heal. Send me your shifts, insights, or lightbulb moments! To go deeper: Join the Becoming Secure Community for tools, teachings, and practices to become more self confident, self-connected and secure in relationships. https://www.skool.com/healing-anxious-attachment/about Connect with me on insta: https://www.instagram.com/johhhannamaria/