can we love patriarchal men?

Can we love patriarchal men?Can we do the work of love - bell hooks style - with men who are unconsciously upholding the patriarchy?Once, I would have thought this question deserved an obvious “no”.But through loving patriarchal men, I realise the truth is a little bit more complex (and heartbreaking).This is an episode for anyone, who has (in any capacity), desires to do the work of loving and caring for men.

Om Podcasten

Human Becoming is a weekly podcast that explores the ins and outs, the good, the bad and the ugly, of what it means to be(come) human. From tackling shame to embracing our anger, this podcast aims to bring you closer to yourself - to what experiences have shaped you and your story, and how you can embrace your own humanity. This podcast is hosted by Tumi Moloto, a human (and healer) becoming, a passionate historian and storyteller, a non-binary, queer African, and a lover of humanity. In their time here on earth, they hope to show humanity that there is another way forward, that moves us away from disconnection, capitalism and collective trauma, towards belonging, compassion, and collective healing. This podcast is the story of their rumbles with the complexity of their own humanity. As they take you along on the journey of their becoming, they hope that the stories shared will give you greater insight into yours.