Adam Lane Smith & Shallon Lester: Avoidant Attachment Red Flags – “Never Trust Words Alone”

In this episode, Adam Lane Smith and Shallon Lester expose the hidden red flags of avoidant attachment and why trusting words alone can lead to heartbreak. They break down the toxic dating patterns that leave women feeling unworthy, discuss why men rarely change without consequences, and share practical strategies to build secure, lasting relationships. Topics Covered:👉 Why many women settle in relationships out of fear of abandonment👉 The rise of emotionally unavailable men and the impact on dating👉 Shallon’s no-nonsense approach to breakups and setting boundaries👉 Why men rarely change without external consequences👉 The power of emotional detachment and firm boundaries in dating👉 How women can communicate their needs effectively without manipulation👉 The dangers of relying on a partner to define one’s purpose👉 The struggle of modern women between career success and traditional roles Adam and Shallon reveal the key mindset shifts needed to break free from avoidant attachment and create fulfilling relationships. If you're tired of toxic dating cycles and want real, actionable advice, this episode is a must-watch. Stay tuned for more expert insights and relationship advice in future episodes!If you enjoyed this episode, you will probably love our episode titled ‘Attachment Specialist Fixes an Avoidant Woman’  https://youtu.be/zSaZrRedRUc  Need more help with your attachment? Work with Adam: www.adamlanesmith.com  -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow the “I Wish You Knew” Podcast:--------------------------------------------------Website:    https://iwishyouknew.show/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theiwishyouknewpodcast/ Tiktok:        https://www.tiktok.com/@iwishyouknewshow Snapchat:  https://www.snapchat.com/iwishyouknewpod  Twitter /X:  https://twitter.com/iwishyouknewpod Spotify:      https://open.spotify.com/show/4Ncc0MBgm04xTIQ5ByiCGI Apple:        https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/i-wish-you-knew/id1713427809  --------------------------------------------------Follow Adam Lane Smith:--------------------------------------------------Website: https://adamlanesmith.com/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBO093GsMmnA9tb8lZPhbgg    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attachmentadam/ Twitter /X: https://x.com/AdamLaneSmith Threads:   https://www.threads.net/@attachmentadam Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@attachmentbro  --------------------------------------------------Shallon Lester:IG: https://www.instagram.com/shallonxo/?hl=enYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCygmWL3k4EpxBmWGGBs5ldw The next episode drops Thursday :)See you there.

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Join the duo, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist, as they cut through the noise with bold, unfiltered discussions on love, connection, and relationships. From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all. If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up and get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about relationships!