247: Validation vs. Confidence: What's the Real Difference? A Chat with Nicole Kalil

Here to get TRASHED?! 😝 Kidding, kind of. Founder & confidence sherpa, keynote speaker, author, and podcast host Nicole Kalil is here today to discuss how bringing her trash to the “transfer station” ie, dump, led her to interrogate the “trash” that was in her head or “head trash” and write her first book called Validation is for Parking. In today’s episode, Nicole explains what “head trash” is and the 3 things you need to know about it to become more confident. Nicole and Erin also talk about: Nicole’s personal story of BECOMING confident when she was climbing the corporate ladder and why this is different from all of the other voices telling us how to BE confident 5 things that derail your confidence and how to be aware of them Why you’ve been lying to yourself with the affirmations you’re using and how to actually believe them and embrace them If you want to become more confident—this is the episode for you. Special sprinkles on top of this episode: Why “fake it til you make it” is out and its better replacement Why Nicole’s plan B is to be a detective If you liked this episode, you can keep the party going with:  Episode 126: Want to Gain Confidence, Get Comfortable with the Uncomfortable at Work? Try Chicken Dancing! (with Special Guest Cameron Roffey) Episode 121: Let Go of Your Leadership-Limiting Beliefs - How Improv Improves Your Confidence Show Links: Purchase Erin’s book, I See You! A Leader’s Guide to Energizing Your Team through Radical Empathy. Get our free Book Club timeline and checklist here. Did today’s episode resonate with you? Please leave us a 5-star review and drop us any Qs you want answered in upcoming episodes. Boring professional development is out, virtual improv team building is in. Learn more about our offerings here. Your hunt for the top best virtual keynote speakers stops today. Learn more about our F Words at Work & Empathetic Leader keynotes here. Connect with Nicole Kalil: Nicole’s website Nicole’s book, Validation is for Parking Nicole’s freebie, My Year of Confidence Action Plan Nicole’s Instagram Connect with Erin Diehl: Erin’s Instagram Erin’s LinkedIn Erin’s website improve it!’s Instagram improve it!’s website

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*TOP 1% GLOBAL PODCAST* Pssst…it’s your work bestie again tapping you on the shoulder telling you to take a breather from sending another email because I’ve got some tea–piping hot, actually. I’m Erin Diehl, founder of improve it!l (AKA, your work bestie), and I’m going to take you on a much needed excursion from your workday from the comfort of your very own headphones. Every Wednesday, your Workday Playdate will give you research-based, tangible strategies to transform yourself through improv comedy techniques and play. It’s all designed to bring the fun back to your job and remind you that taking a break from your workday is ironically what improves it the most. And with a little play date snack every Monday, you’ll start your week off on the right foot with a fresh idea to incorporate, pronto. Oversharing and knee-slappers guaranteed. Welcome, my friend. Let’s play!