Breaking The Success Ceiling

Episode Overview In this episode, I explore why so many female founders experience "success ceilings" - those moments when business finally gains momentum, money flows in, goals are hit... and then something happens to pull us back down. Whether it's sudden emergencies, procrastination on new opportunities, or discounting services, these patterns aren't random. They represent unconscious self-sabotage that happens when money starts to flow. Key Highlights Understanding Success Ceilings Success ceilings manifest as unexpected obstacles just as business gains momentum Common signs include anxiety around increased sales, sudden "emergencies" requiring spending, procrastination on opportunities, discounting services, and boundary issues The brain is trying to protect us by returning to what feels familiar and safe The Cautionary Tale of Nasty Girl Founder Sophia Amoruso grew from an eBay store to $100 million in revenue Appeared on Forbes' list of richest self-made women with net worth of $280 million Released bestselling autobiography "Girlboss" and Netflix series Filed for bankruptcy in 2016 and was acquired for just $20 million in 2017 Illustrates both the excitement of rapid success and challenges of sustainable scaling The Psychology Behind Self-Sabotage We all have a financial identity - a concept of how much money we "should" have When we exceed our unconscious money set point, we experience identity disruption Ancestral programming can trigger safety warnings when we achieve unusual success Trauma changes how genes express themselves, and these changes can be inherited Our nervous system responds to unfamiliarity by shifting into fight, flight, freeze, or fawn Fear of others' expectations creates resistance to expanded success Breaking Through Success Ceilings Nervous System Regulation: - Practice deep breathing: inhale for 4, hold, exhale for 6 - Place one hand on heart, one on stomach while affirming "It is safe for me to receive" - Regular practice helps rewire physical responses to success Create Success Containers: - Open a separate bank account for new income levels - Practice writing larger invoices and sending them to yourself - Rehearse conversations about higher rates - Visualize having a financial team supporting your expanded business Identity Work: - Ask: "Who do I need to become to hold this level of success?" - Create identity statements that align with your expanded financial reality - Find accountability partners who expect this level of success from you - Establish celebration rituals for financial milestones - Set clear boundaries around time and energy Inspirational Examples: Sarah Blakely maintained 100% ownership of Spanx when investors came knocking Her quote: "Success to me is internal, not external" Built a billion-dollar company by focusing beyond just numbers Final Thought Success limits aren't character flaws—they're protective mechanisms that once served us but no longer do. With awareness and practice, we can break through to new levels of sustained success where it feels safe to thrive. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Success Ceilings 02:50 Understanding Success Ceilings 06:04 The Story of Sophia Amoruso 08:55 Psychology Behind Self-Sabotage 11:55 Ancestral Programming and Financial Identity 14:53 Nervous System Responses to Success 18:08 Breaking the Cycle of Self-Sabotage 20:58 Practical Steps to Embrace Success 23:47 Visualizing and Embodying Success 27:03 Creating New Financial Containers 29:49 Conclusion and Next Steps Resources: Get my FREE book 'It's Not About The Money' Take the Money StoryTypes® Quiz Sign up to my FREE Newsletter

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It’s not about the money is for women in business who know they want to make more money whilst holding onto more money and growing an abundance of wealth. You're tired of overgiving, undercharging and being stuck in a scarcity money mindset. You know you have it in you, you just need financial confidence and an abundant mindset. You're excited and ready to learn what it takes to make more money, invest and step into wealth. Hosted by Catherine Morgan, Author, Award-winning Financial Wellbeing Speaker, Financial Coach and Trauma-informed coach. You'll learn the steps to create more wealth, grow your business, and have a better relationship with money. This is the show for you to feel good with money and to explore the meaning beyond wealth. This podcast is the one to listen to if you're a female entrepreneur. ‘Formerly the In Her Financial Shoes Podcast.’