Age Gap Relationships Are Weird and Dangerous
If you’re in your 20s and dating someone over 30… ask yourself why.Because it’s not about maturity, or real connection, or being “special.” It’s about control. It’s about access. And it’s about patriarchy. In this episode, I break down why age-gap relationships are rarely about love and almost always about power. I talk about how women are groomed to settle young, give up their freedom, and build someone else’s legacy before they ever get to build their own life. I also go deep into how marriage, motherhood, and even the idea of “love” has been sold to women as the ultimate goal—while men are encouraged to wait, explore, and avoid commitment until they’re 40. It’s time to unlearn. You’re not behind—you’re just finally asking the questions patriarchy didn’t want you to ask.