Why can’t you just accept me as I am? (The TRUTH behind this question)
Why Can’t You Just Accept Me as I Am? — Navigating Guilt, Boundaries & Love in Addiction Recovery Have you ever heard your addicted loved one say, “Why can’t you just accept me as I am?” If so, you know how emotionally charged and confusing that moment can be. You're caught between wanting to love them unconditionally and not wanting to enable behavior that’s harming them — and you. In this eye-opening episode, we break down what your loved one might really mean when they say this and how you can respond in a way that shows empathy without losing your boundaries. 🔍 You’ll learn: ✔️ Why this question shows up so often in addiction ✔️ How to validate feelings without enabling behavior ✔️ Scripts and strategies to reduce conflict and build connection Whether you're a parent, partner, sibling, or friend, this episode offers the clarity and confidence you need for one of the toughest conversations in addiction recovery. 🎧 Tune in and empower yourself with tools to stay loving, strong, and sane in the chaos of addiction. 🛠️ Resources Mentioned in This Episode: FREE Downloadables Amber AI – On-Demand Recovery Coach Advanced Skills Membership Join Our Facebook Group Schedule a 1:1 Consultation 📲 Subscribe, rate, and share this episode to help more families find hope and healing. Recovery spreads faster when we spread it together.