#160 | How Redefining Mothering Helped Me Grow as an LGBTQ Ally and Parent

This episode intricately examines the nuanced dimensions of mothering, positioning it as a fundamental aspect of the human experience. Through a contemplative lens, I reflect on the lessons and emotions tied to the act of mothering, particularly as I celebrate my daughter Isabelle's graduation from college. The narrative traverses the landscape of memory, encapsulating moments of joy, challenge, and inevitable change. As I talk about the significance of mothering, I challenge the audience to acknowledge the diverse expressions of this practice, which encompass not only biological connections but also the myriad ways in which individuals contribute to the nurturing of others. I emphasize the strength found in vulnerability and the importance of recognizing the often unseen acts of care that permeate our lives, encouraging listeners to reflect on their own experiences with mothering, both as recipients and as givers of care. Ultimately, the episode serves as a heartfelt tribute to the enduring power of love and the sacredness of nurturing relationships.Takeaways: The concept of mothering transcends traditional definitions, embodying a universal and profound essence. Mothering encompasses nurturing, witnessing, and guiding without exerting control over others. Engaging in mothering is a human capacity that can manifest in various forms and relationships. The act of mothering often occurs in the quiet moments, unnoticed yet deeply impactful. Letting go is one of the most challenging aspects of mothering, requiring trust and faith. Reflecting on who has mothered us can reveal the often unseen connections in our lives. Connect with Heather:Receive a free excerpt and reflection guide from Heather's book, Parenting with Pride. Find out what kind of ally you are!Share More Human. More Kind. Please subscribe, rate, and review!Connect heather@heatherhester.netJoin the Kind Space on PatreonBook a call! Watch on YouTubeListen to *NEW* episodes every Tuesday and Friday!This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Blubrry - https://create.blubrry.com/resources/about-blubrry/privacy-policy

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Do you wish you could better support your LGBTQ child? To be an ally who shows up with courage, clarity, and compassion in your family, workplace, and community? You're not alone. More Human. More Kind. is a twice-weekly podcast supporting concerned parents and allies of LGBTQ+ kids who are ready to move from fear, grief, and confusion to healing, resilience, and empowered advocacy. Hosted by Heather Hester, author of Parenting with Pride and a fierce advocate for human rights and social justice, each episode blends grounded insights, personal stories, and practical guidance to help you protect what matters, raise brave kids, and spark collective change. * You'll learn to navigate mental health challenges, set loving boundaries, and find hope and support through the messiness of parenting, allyship, and becoming. * Whether you're wrestling with bigotry, searching for connection and community, or ready to shift your mindset toward kindness and open-minded action, this show offers the education and encouragement you need. New episodes drop every Tuesday and Friday, featuring expert interviews, vulnerable Listener Queer-ies, and timely solo episodes that foster growth, empathy, and activism. Start with fan-favorite Episode 3: Embracing the Messiness of it All, an honest conversation that will help you exhale, reflect, and show up more fully and fiercely for the people you love.This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Blubrry - https://create.blubrry.com/resources/about-blubrry/privacy-policy