The Hidden Problem with the ‘Let Them' Theory | Ep 27

Do you get' what you need to do - you've read the self-help books and listened to the podcasts but you just don't feel able to implement the advice? In today’s episode, I’m sharing my view of Mel Robbins’ “Let Them Theory” - the idea that we aren’t responsible for managing other people’s emotions or choices. While this sounds liberating, for those with trauma histories, ADHD, rejection sensitivity, or deeply ingrained people-pleasing patterns, it’s rarely as simple as “just let them.” I...

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If you find yourself saying yes when you want to say no, and consistently do things for others at the expense of your own needs, this podcast is for you. I'm Charlotte, an experienced trauma and attachment-informed psychotherapist, and former anxious people-pleaser. We'll explore all things people-pleasing; why it happens, what the signs are, and the impact it can have on your life. I'll be sharing personal and professional insights, tips and strategies to help you break free from people-pleasing so you can finally say 'no' without guilt and anxiety.I’m passionate about normalising therapy and making it more relatable, so expect down-to-earth, no-nonsense conversations—with the occasional bit of humour thrown in (fingers crossed!). My aim is to help you feel empowered to discover who you truly are, and experience the freedom that comes with letting go of the need to constantly please others.