Is Your Confidence a Cover-Up That’s Pushing Him Away? with Chris Gillis
Marni and Chris dive into the dynamics of relationships between the contestants on the reality series, Love is Blind, to shed light on our behavior in the dating world. Takeaways from this episode: - How to communicate in an argument - Be confident in your choices - How to handle the timeline on the conversation - Don’t dismiss his concerns Should You Sleep on It? [02:19] There are two schools of thought when it comes to arguing, especially when it’s close to bedtime. One school is that you should never go to bed angry at each other; the other is that when you’re exhausted and it’s late, it makes more sense to sleep it off, and discuss the issue the next day once you’re well-rested. So, which one is it? Men need actionable instructions. Trust Yourself [20:31] It’s common to constantly be looking for validation from our friends when it comes to the person we’re dating. But ultimately, you need to trust ourselves with your decisions. And that requires strength and confidence in yourself and your choices. If you’re with someone, then be convinced with your choice and stand up for it. You’ve got this. Stand up to Your Family [24:49] In the same vein as standing up to your friends, you need to stand up to your parents when need be. And that’s not just limited to your romantic choice but your overall decision in life. Many of us walk around with trauma passed on from our parents. And rather than do the work and get through it, we ended up letting these past traumas dictate our lives. Make a Connection: - 3 Secrets Men Wish You Knew *Free Download* - Are You Making These Unconscious Mistakes With Men? *Free Training* - Ready To Take Control Of Your Dating Life? Book A Call With Us