Why Do We Fall in Love? The Evolutionary Game Theory of Love | Part 1
We explore the psychology of love. In this podcast, we discuss the nuanced world of love through the lens of evolutionary game theory. We explore why sex exists, the roles of male and female dynamics, and why men may appear 'ugly' in the evolutionary context. We go into reasons for staying together in a relationship, and the evolutionary motivation behind "cheating". We explore Robert Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love, which consists of connection, passion, and commitment, and how these elements interplay to define various forms of love. We also offer practical advice such as maximizing health, developing talents, and aiming for long-term commitment to strengthen our relationships. We want to offer a comprehensive guide to understanding and navigating the complex world of love in part 1 of this series.Timestamps:00:00 Intro00:30 Welcome to Manipulation Games00:44 Exploring the Concept of Love02:49 Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love08:40 Evolutionary Game Theory of Love10:16 The Biological Cold War: Why Sex Exists14:55 The Evolution of Male and Female22:26 The Human Brain: Our Peacock's Tail25:38 The Challenges of Human Reproduction34:05 The Dynamics of Long-Term Relationships38:05 Cheating Statistics in the US and Globally40:35 The Dual Mating Hypothesis49:45 Cultural Perspectives on Cheating55:04 Tips for Men01:02:15 Tips for Women01:10:07 Overcoming Challenges Together01:13:19 Conclusion