#197 BTW, Good Morning" - These words will reset how you connect with people with Bart Berkey
What happens when a simple subject line transforms your entire leadership approach? In this solo episode, Bart Berkey shares the profound moment when a three-word email—“BTW, good morning”—became a turning point in how he leads with humanity, not just hustle. This deeply personal story reveals why connection must come before direction, and how one assistant's courage sparked a lasting shift in Bart's leadership mindset.Major TakeawaysThe 3P Framework: Lead with Person, Purpose, Praise to build trust, drive execution, and inspire motivation.BTW, Good Morning: A reminder to pause, acknowledge, and connect before assigning tasks.Micro Chats Matter: Small greetings fuel emotional belonging—especially in hybrid and remote environments.Nine Keystrokes Can Set You Apart: Typing “Thank You” may take 1.7 seconds, but the impact can be career-changing.Ask About the Blueberries: Celebrate wins, recognize efforts, and invite others to share what’s working.Memorable Quotes“Are you barking orders—or building connection?”“Small talk isn’t fluff. It’s fuel.”“BTW, good morning—three words that rewired how I lead.”“Recognition starts with acknowledgment. It’s not about the task. It’s about the person first.”Why It Matters / How to Use ItThis episode challenges the default mode of leadership many fall into—prioritizing urgency over empathy. Whether you're managing a team or building relationships, the shift from task-first to people-first can unlock deeper trust, better collaboration, and higher performance. Try Bart’s 3P approach in your next email or 1-on-1, and watch your team’s response change.Resources & Links:Bart Berkey: MostPeopleDont.com | LinkedIn