62. Can You Love Without Losing Yourself? Healing Attachment Wounds with Boundaries

Today, we’re talking about the hard lessons that come from abandoning ourselves to please others. I dig into what it means to be a "safe place" without losing yourself and how to love in healthy, full ways without neglecting your own needs. If you’ve struggled with boundaries or feel drained by being everyone’s go-to, this episode is for you. Boundaries are key to having better relationships—with others and with yourself. Listen, reflect, and maybe start asking yourself some of these same questions. If you need help working through it, join Tuesday Group. Here’s the link. Also mentioned: My May episode This is Me, All In, You can find it between episodes 45 and 46. Also mentioned: Simple Scripts for Saying Hard Things, a resource for tough conversations in life, love, or work.

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Welcome to Mother Mayhem, the podcast for daughters of narcissistic and emotionally limited mothers. I’m Heather Gray, licensed therapist and narcissistic abuse recovery expert. If you're healing from the mother wound, emotional neglect, or childhood trauma, you’re in the right place. Start with the first 8 episodes—they lay the foundation for your healing. Learn to understand your experience, set boundaries, and build more honest, grounded relationships. Listener questions are welcome. You’re not alone. Other daughters are here. I am, too.