64. Unlearning Shame: Reclaiming Your Identity After Narcissistic Abuse

This week, we’re diving deep into the heavy, but important, topic of shame. For many daughters of narcissistic or emotionally limited mothers, shame can feel like a constant companion, sneaking in when you least expect it and clouding your sense of self-worth. But shame doesn’t have to define you. We’ll explore why shame shows up, how it differs from guilt, and the damaging effects of a shame spiral. More importantly, I’ll walk you through practical steps to interrupt the spiral. We’ll challenge those negative thoughts, and begin the path toward self-compassion and healing. You’ll learn how to connect to the truth that your worth is not determined by your mistakes or what anyone else thinks of you. Join the Conversation in Tuesday Group: If today’s episode resonates and you’re looking for a supportive space to explore these topics further, Tuesday Group is open for you. 

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Welcome to Mother Mayhem, the podcast for daughters of narcissistic and emotionally limited mothers. I’m Heather Gray, licensed therapist and narcissistic abuse recovery expert. If you're healing from the mother wound, emotional neglect, or childhood trauma, you’re in the right place. Start with the first 8 episodes—they lay the foundation for your healing. Learn to understand your experience, set boundaries, and build more honest, grounded relationships. Listener questions are welcome. You’re not alone. Other daughters are here. I am, too.