64. Unlearning Shame: Reclaiming Your Identity After Narcissistic Abuse

This week, we’re diving deep into the heavy, but important, topic of shame. For many daughters of narcissistic or emotionally limited mothers, shame can feel like a constant companion, sneaking in when you least expect it and clouding your sense of self-worth. But shame doesn’t have to define you. We’ll explore why shame shows up, how it differs from guilt, and the damaging effects of a shame spiral. More importantly, I’ll walk you through practical steps to interrupt the spiral. We’ll challenge those negative thoughts, and begin the path toward self-compassion and healing. You’ll learn how to connect to the truth that your worth is not determined by your mistakes or what anyone else thinks of you. Join the Conversation in Tuesday Group: If today’s episode resonates and you’re looking for a supportive space to explore these topics further, Tuesday Group is open for you. 

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Welcome to Mother Mayhem: A Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Podcast for Daughters. Join me, Heather Gray, a licensed therapist and expert in narcissistic abuse recovery, as I help you heal from childhood trauma. Listen to the first 8 episodes in order. They provide a paced framework for your healing. Use the resources linked in the show notes. Understand the impact of your experience. Establish healthy boundaries. Gain a better relationship with yourself and others. Listener questions are valued. Submit yours. Listen in as I guide fellow daughters. They're in it with you. I am, too.